A Positive Holiday

Determined to stay positive, in 2017.

A different Pete might well have complained about driving to our holiday in torrential rain. Being stuck behind a tractor for ages, then having to take a long diversion because of an accident in Boston. (The original one, in Lincolnshire) But not me, not the positive me. A journey of about ninety miles north still only took some three hours, even with the unexpected delays.

We arrived in a dry but chilly late afternoon, and checked in to our rented cottage behind the large comfortable hotel. The town of Sutton on Sea was unchanged, after nine years. Still the same shops, the small High Street, the unspoilt seafront, and long promenade. This is a place set in time, and that time feels like 1960. The cottage that we last stayed in in 2008 was as we remembered, with better beds, and a modern television. There was even time for a brisk walk along the front before dark, and the handy convenience store provided some essentials before we settled down to an evening in, with the food we had sensibly brought with us.

Ollie enjoyed the novelty of the stairs leading up to the bathroom and two double bedrooms, and there was ample space for his large bed, and both his food and water bowls. Once unpacked and settled, we relaxed watching the TV, before I had a nice early night, and a very good sleep. Because it was officially out of season, there were no noisy family groups, and few people around, other than a handful of hotel guests. So no issues with parking, and no noise of any concern after dark.

After breakfast the next morning, we set off for the seafront walk to the town of Mablethorpe, around three miles north. Deliberately downmarket as a resort, Mablethorpe is home to holidaymakers in caravans, cheap guest houses, and basic accommodation. It has cut-price markets, bargain-basement gift shops, and the cheapest fast food we have ever seen. This is a bucket and spade, sand-castles holiday town, in the long tradition of the British seaside. And all the better for it, in my opinion. After stopping for a coffee, we retraced our steps to Sutton on Sea, and bought a Chinese takeaway meal, to save cooking. That night, the coast was hit by a fierce storm, and torrential rain. But it didn’t really affect us, other than hearing the howling gales from the comfort of the cottage.
Another positive day.

On Wednesday, we had arranged to meet my cousin and his wife. They live in West Lincolnshire, so it was a relatively short journey for them to come and see us. We met for lunch in the hotel, which we all agreed was excellent. Then the sun came out, so we were able to enjoy a long walk with Ollie, heading south to nearby Sandilands. Catching up with my cousin and his wife again was a welcome diversion, and we finished off the evening with toasted sandwiches in the cottage.
Positivity was once again the order of the day.

On Thursday, I had planned a trip to Tattershall, with its castle and church on the agenda. Following that, a short journey to the pleasant town of Woodhall Spa. We woke to dark skies, and some heavy rain. The sort of morning where you consider abandoning plans, and going back to bed. But not when you are being positive, oh no. You head out anyway, and hope for the best. Under an hour later, we pulled into the car park for the castle and church, and it had stopped raining. Off we went, and discovered that the church was not only open, but photography was allowed inside too. Even better, dogs were allowed, so Ollie made his first trip inside a church into the bargain.

Once at the castle, despite gloomy skies, the rain still held off. Julie looked after Ollie as I scampered up the stairs inside, delighted to discover that the roof was open to visitors. The sun came out just long enough for some distant views and photos, followed by a short walk around the moat, and the fields beyond for Ollie. Back at the car, the rain finally came down. But it didn’t matter, as we were safe inside the car, making the trip to Woodhall Spa. Arriving there, we had coffee on the outside terrace of a pub, and made a quick tour of the familiar town, before getting back to the car park just as the heavens opened once more. Our luck was holding, and being positive was appearing to work. That night we ate at the hotel, where Ollie was allowed to sit by our table. Another delicious meal, finished off with some powerful ‘designer gin’.
All in all, a great day out, and very positive.

Friday was our last full day, and we woke once again to threatening skies and rain. Undaunted, we set off to Chapel St Leonards, a seaside village eight miles from Sutton on Sea, to the south. Once again, it felt familiar, and completely unchanged in almost a decade. The cheap cafes, seaside shops, and local people on mobility scooters. Another window into the past, steeped in a tradition that is in my bones. Once parked and heading for the beach, it had stopped raining, though we had to dodge puddles. The chilly wind was beaten back by wearing a warm coat, and I was soon happily photographing the closed down seafront cafes and beach huts. Despite being the end of the season, the small amusement arcades were still operating, and all the cafes were open. It was a nice nostalgic trip indeed, and although Ollie wasn’t keen on the windswept beach and sand dunes, I loved it. When we got back, the sun had come out a little, so I took off with Ollie to photograph some more sights at Sutton on Sea. For our last night, we went back to the hotel to eat in the restaurant. Ollie was fast asleep by 7 pm, so we left him resting. After another nice meal, we enjoyed some cocktails before heading back to the cottage to get ready for bed.
Being positive and braving the weather had worked out just right, once again.

Driving home on Saturday, we were in and out of torrential rain, delayed by farm tractors, and wary of road accidents in the gloom. But it was of no concern, as we were only travelling home, and the short holiday was now behind us.

Staying positive, in 2017.

53 thoughts on “A Positive Holiday

    1. Thanks, Fern. I have tried to be positive about everything, in 2017. After decades of being known as a grump and moaner, I felt the need to turn things around. I have (mostly) managed it so far. Just a few weeks to go… 🙂
      Best wishes, Pete.


  1. Pete, I mentioned before Paul Theroux’s book “The Kingdom By The Sea”, his journey around England by small local trains…he mentions many towns like the ones you visited, and I’m happy to hear that time has not taken away their vintage charm…a great post, hope you have time to share some photos in the future!

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  2. Great attitude, and the holiday sounds good. I haven’t visited any of those places but I also like old-fashioned British seaside towns, so I’m putting them on my list. (I’m in Wales and the weather was atrocious last week too). Welcome back!

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  3. Your positive thoughts are spreading, the sun started to shine as I read this, making it more bearable to head out and walk the dogs after a few days of wind and rain.
    Sounds like a relaxing trip, the nostalgic charm of the seaside town sounds perfect.

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  4. What a delightful description of your lovely vacation. It all sounds very charming. Small towns that haven’t changed, the seaside, seeing relatives, good dinners, Ollie… and a positive attitude that let you enjoy everything. Wonderful, Pete!

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  5. Congratulations on staying positive! Your trip through charming coastal towns sounds lovely, though I sympathize with you concerning the cold and rain. After many months of drought here, rain is finally falling today; I wonder how long it will be before I regret wishing for it. I too will need to practice staying positive! 🙂

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    1. Thanks, Mary.

      Lincolnshire is mainly agricultural fenland, where growing potatoes, cabbages, and other vegetables is the major industry. The North Sea coast has vast empty beaches, unlimited sands, and muddy brown waters. In between are the Wolds, with undulating small hills, and woodland villages.

      I started trying to be positive in January 2017, after a bad year in 2016 had me looking at everything in a very pessimistic light. It has worked, at least most of the time, and preferable to always feeling glum.
      Best wishes, Pete.

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  6. Hi Pete.
    Small world; I was in Sutton-on-sea in June and your description was spot-on!

    I’d never heard of the place. I went there because an acquaintance of mine has just bought a small campsite and house there. He is the boss-man/moderator of a large nationwide Motorhome enthusiast’s website (Motorhomefun.co.uk). I took my Motorhome up there and stayed for a few days to try out the site.

    Sutton-on-sea is unbelievable. He described it as ‘Miles of golden beaches, dunes and a promenade that went on for miles’. True, but oh such a run down seafront. So sad.

    I, too, took photos of the beach huts and the weeds growing up through the prom’ and the steps to the beach that we’re disappearing forever under the sand. Such a shame. Would have loved to see the place in its hey-day.

    However, I came across an antique/bric-a-brac place in town. Floor to ceiling rammed with junk. Spent over an hour there!


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    1. The shop you describe is Knick-Knacks, at the end of the High Street. The run-down seafront you mention is what appeals to me. It isn’t run down, it’s always been like that. It just isn’t commercial. If you had got along to Mablethorpe, you would understand why Sutton is far preferable. That slightly neglected feel is all part of the timeless charm. 🙂
      You should have let me know you were going, I would have come along, and shown you ‘the sights’!
      Cheers, Jim. Take care mate.
      Best wishes, Pete.


  7. Can’t wait to see some of your photos Pete. Sutton on Sea was a local spot for the beach for me when I was living in Scunthorpe in the 1960s. I remember beach huts and vast wide beaches with the sea miles away.

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  8. What an absolutely positive itinerary and attitude. Dining out, visiting with relatives and even having Ollie along. The town sounds charming – hope it never changes and stays in 1960.
    I like the way you end it all by saying, Staying positive in 2017! That’s easy to say now – we only have 3 1/2 months to go!!

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