I woke up feeling worn out this morning. Despite trying to make the most of the relaxing four-day lull, my body refused to see the positives that my mind insisted on conjuring up. This tiredness and malaise is predominantly self-inflicted of course, and I know most of the reasons for it.
Too much red wine over a ten-day period.
Eating things I would never normally even have in the house.
Staying up far too late, for no good reason.
Being awakened by barking dogs before 8 am every day.
Allowing myself to be physically aware of every year of my long life so far.
And so on…
But I am a positive person now, so must search out the positives, and let them rise over the negatives trying to dominate my day. This first day of that strangely futuristic-sounding 2018, when in just three months, I will be 66 years old, an age I never expected to reach, at one time.
The sun is shining.
Ollie is waiting to go out, watching me type this. He has been exceptionally good, despite all the disruption to his routine.
The house is warm and dry, and everything has been tidied away.
After today, life returns to normal, until the 24th of December at least.
My blogging friends are all anticipating the year ahead, and many are featuring their blogging ‘best bits’ of 2017.
The TV will stop showing ‘specials’ and tired re-runs of films, concentrating instead on some fine ‘winter drama’ to enjoy in the coming months.
I have a pile of DVD films to watch and review.
My wife starts a new job next Monday. A fresh start, and a complete change of career.
So, the positives far outweigh the negatives.
You just have to say them out loud.
I feel like worn out but positive is legit the theme of my life.
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It is certainly the dominant feeling I experience, since turning 60! π
Many thanks for following my blog too, which is much appreciated.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Tonight I’m going to open a bottle of Champagne that was given to me on New Year’s Eve. I haven’t had a chance to drink it yet because I’ve had to be the designated driver every evening this year!
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Sad to hear. I have been the ‘designated red wine drinker’ for some years now. Including tonight π
Best wishes, Pete.
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Yeah reminding me once again that I have a lot to be grateful too.
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You do indeed, Lloyd. A lovely wife, a job, many interests, and a burgeoning career as a writer and journalist. A long and happy life awaits you, you just have to grab it! π
Best wishes, Pete.
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Hope you feel better soon, Pete! I think blogging is a good remedy for you! π
Happy to see that Julie got a new job, good people are always in demand. ππ»
Give OllieπΎπΎ lost of pats from us. It’s quite stormy in Cley right ow. Our beach clean out on Saturday has been cancelled.
Wishing you all a healthy, happy and prosperous 2018!β¨
xxxx
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We saw on the news about the poor dog that died at Cley beach, after eating something toxic. I hope the recent storms have not left too much pollution in your lovely village. Ollie is fast asleep. I will give him your pats when he wakes up. π X
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Oh dear, that’s tragic! Poor dog and family! π’ We had no idea ( we don’t have a telly, but sometimes we watch Alex Dolan and the weather forecast …), thanks for informing us. x
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Some reports said it was a poisoned fish, others showed congealed palm oil, which is deadly for dogs.
http://www.edp24.co.uk/news/environment/dog-owners-warned-death-golden-retriever-washed-up-fish-1-5340201
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Oh dear, that’s absolutely devastating! Thank you for adding the link, Pete.
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Loving your positives list. I think we are all feeling a bit sluggish after the overindulgence. Although I managed to only drink one glass of wine in the whole two weeks, I did eat my body weight in cheese and chocolate.
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Well done with that one glass, Abbi. I considered myself restrained when keeping it to a bottle a day! π
Best wishes, Pete.
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Mr O does not drink at all because alcohol is not his friend. He finds the festive season to be the most difficult time to stick to this so I join him out of solidarity.
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I’m sorry your worn out Pete but YAYπ for being positive!!!!π
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Thanks, Dani. Starting as I mean to go on! π x
Best wishes, Pete. x
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You’re welcome!π
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Really pleased to hear such positivity and wish Julie all the very best in her new venture. B
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Thanks, Brian. We must try to meet up at some stage this year.
Love from us both, Pete. x
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Sounds to me like you are experiencing the joys of living. Sounds to me like it is all positive with you. I am having some of the same kinds of thoughts but in the end of the day I find myself rejoicing in the fact that I can experience all these things …. Better to be on this side of the sod than the other..
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Very true, John. You are doing very well indeed, and also making the most of your billions! π π
Best wishes, Pete.
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Sorry I’m late coming to wish you a Happy New Year, but I couldn’t come empty-handed with nothing for Ollie!!
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That’s a good one, GP. Classic baby Ollie!
Best wishes, Pete.
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Thanks, Pete. I hope everything is positive this year. Love to Ollie and I hope your wife’s job goes very well. β₯
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Thanks, Olga. I have everything crossed, as a back-up!
Best wishes, Pete.
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I agree that we have to find the positives and say them out loud. Sometimes I get stuck in a funk and can only see the negative, it may take me some time to realize how truly blessed I really am. But thinking positive can change your life completely.
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I left it very late in life to start to see the positives, Shayann.
You are young, and that attitude will see you through much happier times.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Iβve watched too many people live miserable lives. It breaks my heart, but all I can do is change my life for the time being.
I love your blog! Thank you for being a part of this community.
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Thanks for your thoughts and kind words. I didn’t have a miserable life, fortunately, but I did make so many mistakes. Mostly, that was because I saw the negatives in everything, and was quick to run away from situations that may well have been very beneficial to my well-being in the long run.
It took me more than 60 years to start to think about life from a different angle.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Itβs good that you figured it out though! Most people never do.
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A good start Pete, the sun is shining and Julie has a new job, how could things be better. Happy New Year!
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Only the big lottery win to add the icing on the cake!
(It rained hard all night, but I’m not mentioning that of course) π
Cheers mate, Pete.
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Come on Pete 66 is not old, didn’t you know 50 is the new 40, and the 60’s are now your middle ages, not “old” anymore. I would say you are in your prime. My problem trying to get to sleep is the heat, roll on March, best month of the year…
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I think I recall two nights last year when it was too hot to sleep properly, but that’s a rarity here.
If 66 is the new 56, I will look forward to those extra ten years! π
Best wishes, Pete.
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Lucky you only 2 nights I have about 3 months of restless hot nights.
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The joys of life down under! And you get all those nasty spiders too. π
Best wishes, Pete.
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Fortunately I like spiders, they eat the mosquitos…
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Good old Ollie. Maybe you need more rest Pete. Oh yes….just stay positive.
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Resting today, Arlene. And enjoying it! π
Best wishes, Pete.
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You know what they say, Pete – after 40, if you wake up and nothing hurts, it means youβre dead! It is annoying having bits of yourself fail -like eyesight, all those pairs of glasses everywhere – and not digesting what you want to eat, but there are benefits. Like knowing you donβt have to do a lot of things, and that you donβt have to care what people think. Best wishes for the New Year!ππΊπβοΈ
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Thanks, Marina.
Given my work and lifestyle for over 40 years, I am grateful to have got this far with no major problems! π
Best wishes, Pete.
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Yes, you just have to say them out loud. Thank you for that, and for a great post. I have no grand review of 2017, nor a list of goals and resolutions. I just write about the important things. Thatβs it. Best to you, Pete.
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Thanks, Jennie. Your work is all about important things. My only goal is to try to see some positive things, in a world full of negatives. But you already do that, every day at school.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Thank you, Pete. I try.
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And you succeed!
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It’s healthy for your mind and body to be positive.
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Thanks for your comment, TC. It’s worked for a year, so far. π
Best wishes, Pete.
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Happy New Year to you, sir. Positive > Negative, anytime! π
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Thanks very much, Lashaan. My best wishes to you, for a happy 2018.
Pete.
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Well we are having the coldest New Year’s day in 100 years. Which is longer than I have been alive which makes me feel a little younger! I did ok with 66; it was 70 that knocked me for a loop. As for something positive about Trump that would take more than 2018 to accomplish. Happy for a new job for Julie, health for you and the companionship of Ollie.
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Thanks very much, Elizabeth. I have a few close friends who have already passed 70, and they all look younger than me! π
Best wishes, Pete.
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Good for you, Pete!
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Thanks, Sue. It is absolutely pouring down here now, but I refuse to be dismayed! π
Best wishes, Pete.
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Good for you!
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I feel somehow similar – like having been overrolled by a mighty truck. π But I’m very sure we will recover, dear Pete. π
A Happy New Year to you and your beloved!
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That’s the feeling, Kerin!
Frohes neues Jahr to you, my friend in Germany.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Staying up even later than normal has been an issue for me too, goodness knows why I get involved in a second rate movie!! But from tomorrow I am going to try and be more of a morning person and the first job of the new year is to do a thorough spring clean! Your positivity is catching… π
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Te e hee….I just do NOT do late anymore!!
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I’m beginning to think I shouldn’t!!
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Spring cleaning is indeed a very positive task to tackle in January! Good luck with that, Jude. π
Best wishes, Pete. x
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heehee… if you could see how many cobwebs there are!
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That’s country living for you. Our place is always full of them. π
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We had loads in Ludlow too. I blame high ceilings and beams. Too many warm nooks and crannies for the spiders.
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Happy New Year, Pete. Congratulations to Julie on her new job. I hope she enjoys it. I’m feeling pretty positive today despite being tired after a very late night. I finally got my new blog up and running with its first post. It’s here if you want to take a look: https://marysmithsplace.wordpress.com/ It still needs quite a bit of tweaking but I’m so glad I managed to get up before the year turned. Also, Hugh of Hugh’sViewsandNews has featured my short story collection on his blog as the Book of the Month. And the rain stopped so we could get out for a walk this afternoon. A good start to the year even if I should have done my annual accounts by now …
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Happy (official) New Year, Mary. Popping over now, to see that new blog.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Good Morning Pete:
Reading that Julie starts a new job on Monday is indeed good news. At, least I hope so. Not thinking about you or me in particular, I have noticed that the face people put on for the public is not entirely accurate. There is always some behind the scenes drama. A manager at the gas station that shares a parking lot with McDonald’s where I normally break my fast is the light of positivism and sunshine. I stop and chat with her simply because it is always a positive experience. I do my blood work in the Ridgeline when I get to McDonald’s. This takes a few minutes. Even in the cold weather, I do it with the driver’s window open. This morning I inadvertently overheard her in a heated telephone discussion with her mother talking about custody of her children and the cost of attorneys. I had no clue there were issues in her life before this morning. Unlike you, I do post images on Facebook to share with a few people who know that I am a closet photographerβtwo former colleagues, five of Nancy’s sewing buddies and miscellaneous relatives and in-laws of relatives and others. It astounds me how a happily married person one day is remarried three days later with no mention of problems in the former marriage or even that it ended. People posting memorials to relatives who are also on Facebook with no indication they were dying of x, y or z. (It is no wonder so many people believe fake news, they live fake lives online). So, I do hope, the new job is a positive thing for you and Julie.
Staying with positive, I can see that making an effort to be and stay positive one will have results for one both in the short and long run. Once one makes a conscious effort and sticks with it (allowing for a little slippage), being positive will become a habit. That is good for then one has reason to believe that there is good around one. One will actually look for it. My recommendation is to keep being positive in 2018. I know from your example and my picking up on it early has made me look more positively at things and even feel more positive. (Unless you count my view of the current occupant of 1600 Pennsylvania Avenue in Washington DCβour Chief Boobβ better know as the pestilence.)
Happy New Year and warmest regards, Theo
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Try to find something positive about Mr Trump, Theo.
(Let me know when you do, I haven’t thought of any positives about Mrs May yet…)
Best wishes, Pete.
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Happy New Year Pete! Congratulations to Julie and her new job!π€
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Thanks, Kim. She starts the training course next Monday, so fingers crossed! π
Best wishes, Pete.
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Spent a quiet evening at home, despite living in one of the world’s great party capitals. I’m looking forward to writing a considerable amount of fiction, a ton of lyrics, and a few limericks in 2018. I have a birthday coming up the day after tomorrow. I won’t give away my age. But for some reason, there’s this song that keeps playing in the back of my mind…
Send me a postcard, drop me a line
Stating point of view
Indicate precisely what you mean to say
Yours sincerely, wasting away
Give me your answer, fill in a form
Mine for evermore
Will you still need me, will you still feed me
When I’m…
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Remember this one? https://beetleypete.wordpress.com/2016/03/16/now-im-64/
Happy Birthday for a couple of days time, David! π
Best wishes, Pete.
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I remember that post very well. And knew for a fact that you’d know exactly to what (song and) age I was referring! By the way, Alaska will also be celebrating a birthday (statehood) on the 3rd. It’s sobering that I am five years older than Alaska…
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On the other hand, I’m exactly 62 years younger than J.R.R. Tolkien! And that’s quite heartening!
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I am only one quarter of the age of the oak tree in my back garden. That’s a positive! π
Best wishes, Pete.
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The concept of giving away my age intrigues me. Anyone want to trade? Age unseen?
Warmest regards, Theo
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“Positivity” keeps you young Pete! Don’t sweat that which you can’t change. Change the things you can and have the wisdom to know the difference. Off we go into the future! Best from Florida!
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Thanks, Frank. Positive geriatrics rule! π
Best wishes, Pete.
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I’m happy Julie found a new job; I hope it suits her and she blossoms in her new duties. Good for you for listing the positives. Looking forward to your film reviews!
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Thanks, Cindy. Just waiting for life to calm down a little, and I will start watching those films!
Best wishes, Pete. x
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Pete, many exciting things for you and your wife – here’s to the positive surprises of 2018 ahead!
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Thanks, John. And to sushi backpacks and gigantic burgers too! π
Best wishes, Pete.
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Isn’t it funny once you say the positive things out loud you realized how truly blessed you are. Here’s to many great adventures for you and your wife and 2018.
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Thanks, Angela. After 64 years of being negative, positivity still feels strange. π
Best wishes, Pete.
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I agree fully. Indeed, live out loud. π Warmest regards, Theo
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Happy New Year, Pete.
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Thanks, Maddy. Here’s to another year of film-watching! π
Best wishes, Pete.
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Happy New Year, Pete. 66 is still pretty young, my Mom is turning 80 this year and she is still very sprightly. There are lots of lovely things ahead, like the bluebells in the spring [I just love those]. Have a lovely evening and get some rest [smile].
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Thanks, Robbie, and well done to your Mum indeed.
Enjoy your summer there, and I look forward to lots more ‘chats’ in 2018.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Yay here’s to PMA!! Phil’s been at work today so we are having New Years Eve tonight instead of last night π one more day to go and then back to work! Phew!!
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One good thing about shift work, you can choose when to have your own celebration.
Have a great time tonight, and Happy New Year for tomorrow! π π
Best wishes, Pete.
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Cheers Pete!
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PMA is the ONLY WAY!
Warmest regards, Ed
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Happy New Year Pete. Despite drinking far too much rhubarb gin and staying out until 3am, I was surprisingly perky this morning. I went for a little walk in the winter sunshine and I’m about to blitz the endless household chores that have built up over the festive period. I’m possibly still drunk, but I’m making the most of it!
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Thanks, Lucinda. Happy to hear you had a good time on the rhubarb gin!
Once that high wears off, you can crash later. π
Best wishes, Pete.
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Happy New Year. Well, I guess pretty much everyone feels worn out on a day like this. Staying up late hasn’t been a thing that I have been doing much anymore (maybe it’s an age thing or something), so I guess that is probably another reason to feel worn out as well. That said, I still look forward to the upcoming year, where hopefully good things are going to be happening. And looking at your list of positives for this first day, I hope they will continue to happen for you as well ππ Hope you will have a great upcoming week!.
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Thanks, Michel. It rained on my dog walk today, but I didn’t care! π
Best wishes, Pete.
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