Compulsive collecting.
I woke up thinking about films this morning. To be precise, films on DVD. This was because I spent some time on Saturday looking for a film, one I bought on DVD earlier this year. I know I bought it, as I can recall it being delivered. I also have the confirmation that it is on my list of items ordered from Amazon, and they emailed me to ask me to review it. But I couldn’t find it on the jumbled shelves in the tiny room grandly called, ‘my office’.
I also knew that I hadn’t watched it. It had gone onto one of the top shelves, the one reserved for new DVD purchases that I haven’t got around to viewing. They lie there in their plastic wrappers, waiting their turn to to be taken down and watched. But new ones arrive, placed in front or on top of them, and they manage to escape my viewing radar. Some of those film purchases date back to as long ago as 2012, but I continue to keep buying new ones, and stacking them with their unwatched companions.
I have ‘collected’ in fits and starts throughout my life. As a child, it was toy cars, and model soldiers. I never seemed to have enough of either, and used any pocket money of gift occasion to increase my hoard. In my late twenties, I had a phase of collecting part-work magazines, storing them in smart binders available from the publisher. When I finally gave them away in the 1990s, I was embarrassed to admit that at least half of them had never actually been read. And there were the books. Despite giving away hundreds of used paperbacks to charity shops, I still moved here with box after box of books, many of them never opened, let alone read. I am now reading less than two books a year, but still buying more. I bought one last week, and found that I had insufficient space to store it on the shelves. So it sits next to me on the desk, wondering if it will ever be read, I suspect.
Once I became interested in photography, in the mid-1980s, I started to buy lots of camera-related items. This reached a peak with the arrival of Ebay, and from 2004 until 2012, I bought up lots of old cameras, some ‘collectible’, many not. My intention was to show them off in some way, perhaps in a display case. But that never happened. What did happen was that I continued to buy more cameras, digital ones this time. The old ones, and my precious film cameras with them, had to be consigned to a box in the loft, where they still reside. To be honest, I would be pushed to find the actual box they are in, and have to confess that collecting them was ultimately pointless.
I have to put a stop to this compulsion, now that I am living on pensions, instead of a large salary. So I buy DVD films second hand, at a fraction of the cost. I buy used books for just 1p, plus postage. That makes it seem more responsible, but doesn’t solve the problem. I am overwhelmed by my collections, and I really do have to stop.
Soon.
My sympathies.
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I have had two bouts of decluttering over the past 3 years and there’s still work to be done but there are things I just can’t part with.
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In my case, things I can’t part with appears to be ‘everything’. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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Best wishes Pete. 🙂
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Pete’s views on being s pensioner. Or, tightening the purse strings.
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Thanks, Jack. 🙂
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Give it away for the next village raffle, Pete. What is boxed away is on the way out, that’s my experience. 😉
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There is a lot of sense in that, Dina. But I just know I would resist throwing everything out, even in a good cause. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete. x
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I am not much of a collector. I don’t like “stuff” and I am always trying to get rid of things. I do have a LOT of enamel pins though but I justify it by wearing them on my bags, coats and jackets so they feel… useful, I guess.
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You do well to avoid ‘stuff’, Abbi. I have so much stuff I try not to look at it all.
Enamel pins are small, so you can definitely have lots of those. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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Thankfully I’m a digital hoarder now and my only investment is extra hard drives for the two servers (one as a backup of the first) that sit in the cellar. If I had everything in hard copy; films, box sets, music, pictures and books, then I would be building an extension 🙂
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If only I had been young enough to get to grips with computers from the start, then I might be in your enviable situation, Eduardo. The same day I wrote this, I ordered another DVD! 🙂
Cheers, Pete.
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Oh My – you and I have so much in common! We have to get help (kidding) – winter is coming Pete and we’ll have many hours to watch and read…
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Fellow ‘hoarders’, Lara. Let’s hope I get to watch even one third of those films during the winter.
They now have to compete with ‘binge-watching’ box sets online! 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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We have TV show here “Hoarders” and we aren’t that sick… AND I am shipping books to New Mexico so my load of history books will be greatly diminished – soon! 🙂
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I’m like you with DVD’s.
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I had almost as many VHS tapes at one time, and they completely covered a wall, from floor to ceiling!
Cheers mate, Pete.
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Wow, that’s impressive. I’m always trying to tidy my collection.
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I gave that up. I used to have them in alphabetical order. That lasted about a month. 🙂
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I wouldn’t know where to start with mine.
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I never got into collecting any one thing. I like gadgets and electronics that are unique, so when visiting thrift stores, I pick up a router, or old computer to use the parts. Living on limited income as someone else mentioned, I buy cheap and fix up for my use.
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I see you more as a keen fixer and enthusiast, Ron. I am talking collections that fill half of a spare room, and also reside in seven or eight large boxes around the house. You did well to avoid that compulsion. But even in a large trailer, you might be tight for space if you had all the stuff I have accumulated. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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Soon is a good decision, Pete! Humans are collectors and hunters, since they are on earth. Better to be a collector! Have a good week. Michael
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Good to know it is just ‘human instinct’, Michael. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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:-))
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We have drawers and shelves of books, CD’s,DVD’s and now a growing pile of Blurays! I am giving away my read-and-won’t-read-again books to the hospital library where Phil works, and unless it’s a ‘special’ book by one of my ‘special’ authors, I only read on kindle so as not to take up space. I have a few stupid collections – “interesting” salt & pepper pots, Kimmidoll keyrings, china tea cups & saucers, but all in the name of photography!
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I have ‘resisted’ blu-rays because of their cost. Even though I have a blu-ray player, I buy the cheaper normal DVD flms, and put up with the ‘upscaling’.
At least you photograph your stuff, FR. I could do that with my cameras I suppose, but I would have to find them first! 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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I am a collector of collections -coins, books, DVD’s, stamps, cigarette cards and their albums – the list goes on.
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I used to collect the cards in PG Tips tea packets. I had numerous albums of every variety. My favourite one was ‘Flags of The World’. No idea what happened to those.
Good to know someone collects more stuff than I do, TC. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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Loved this post. Same here with DVDs and Blurays, I keep on buying them despite having a pile of them that I haven’t even opened yet… X–D
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It seems we are both members of a ‘big club’, Sam. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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It’s hard to stop. I keep telling myself I will only buy one children’s book a year. Sigh!
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At least you put your ‘addiction’ to excellent practical use, Jennie. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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Well said, Pete, although there is a case to be made for DVD movies. 🙂
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Have you tried selling them on Amazon? I’m always planning to look into this, but never seem to get around to it… I’m always surrounded by piles of books, can’t stop buying more..
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I have never sold on Ebay or Amazon, Marina. Mainly because it is such a ‘mission’ to get to the Post Office, and queue to send the packages. I think I would rather give them to charity, if they would take them. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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I am a collector as well Pete….movies and books, as CD’s are now part of the past, unless they are special editions, meaning I will pay 4-5X more than I originally bought them in order to get some outtakes, unreleased tracks and live versions of my favorite Artists…do they pile up? Yes, they do…as for books, I am currently at 60-70 still to read….I have some work to do!
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Always glad to hear I am not alone, John. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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Pete, I am trying to read a bit every day – printed pages still, although my wife now reads off a kindle…I like the feel of a book in your hands….just finished Burt Reynolds’ autobiography, written 3 years ago…hilarious, candid and self-deprecating…he turned down an offer to spend the night with Greta Garbo – he didn’t realize who it was!
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I wish I could get it together to read the books I still buy. It comes under that ‘one day soon’ category for me. 🙂
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It could be worse…a compulsive collector surely has to be more manageable than a compulsive gambler…..
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That’s true, Sue. I have never been a gambler. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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I collect antiques so my house is full of junk Pete. I hate this ridiculous fashion for minimalism. Do people have no sentiment?
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I started collecting Art Deco ceramics and collectibles a few years back, Lucinda. I thought I would display them when I moved, (like the cameras) but there isn’t enough room to do that. They are packed away carefully in plastic storage boxes, in the garage. One day, they will probably all be thrown out by my step-children. 😦
Best wishes, Pete.
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😲😲😲 NOOOO!
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In my youth, and up through early adulthood, I collected coins. Eventually, when I hit hard times financially, I had to sell them all for a fraction of what they were worth.
Fortunately, I didn’t get very far with VHS before DVDs came out. But now I have so many of them that I have no room left on my shelves, and haven’t ordered any more for at least five years now. I have a long “wish list,” though.
I also have collected hundreds of books over my lifetime—99% of which are French language books. Most of them have been read at least once. I don’t plan to buy any more. But since I plan to write a few books of my own, my shelves haven’t quite seen the last of it…
I still have my collection of 1:18 scale cars and trucks, but am considering getting rid of all but the most prized ones.
I once collected “Alien,” “Star Trek,” and “X-Files” figurines. I still have them—in a box somewhere.
The strangest collection I have consists of small plastic ice cream spoons in a wide range of colors that I collected at the cafeteria in Nice, France during my junior year abroad in 1974-75. They all had a hole in the handle, so I strung them together, and the string is quite long. I still have the spoons after nearly 45 years!
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Ice-cream spoons is an unusual one indeed, David. I didn’t mention the VHS collection, as that still haunts me. I had close to 500 VHS films still stacked in virtual ‘towers’, when It was time to move to Norfolk. I tried to give them away to charity shops, but they wouldn’t take them. Then I offered them free to anyone who would collect them. But the best offer I got was someone who wanted to charge me £40 to take them away! I ended up throwing them into the local council waste skip. 😦
Best wishes, Pete.
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You should put them on your Christmas tree, like a garland!
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Good idea, Marina. 🙂
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Return to eBay and sell, sell, sell. But, and this is important, do not buy to restock.
Warmest regards, Theo
PS I give this advice as I sit in a room so full of restocked stamps that I can not find the ones to use on outgoing mail. 😦
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Fortunately, your stamps take up less room than books, or stacks of DVD films.
(Or maybe they don’t? 🙂 )
Best wishes, Pete.
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being much smaller does not mean one accumulates a small volume, besides, they often come in albums which are just a fancy name for a book that bulges away from the spine,\Warmest regards, Theo
I still say, sell, sell, sell and I am going to start today to try to sell myself out of this clutter.
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I forgot about those huge albums. 🙂
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What is the title of the film?
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It’s called ‘Interstellar’, Jack.
https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0816692/
I planned to watch it on Saturday, as the weather was so bad. But I still haven’t found it. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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I’ve seen it. Just another less than memorable Hollywood D grade movie..
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Thanks for the heads-up, Jack. It had some good reviews, and I bought it very cheap.
If I ever find it, I will let you know what I think. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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Great question!
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We are lucky – or unlucky – to have a very large attic so everything not actually required for daily living goes up there. My son came to clear out his bedroom recently – several bags of stuff to charity shop, everything else up in the attic. I sometimes worry the floorboards won’t take much more!
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Our loft is just this side of manageable. But we cannot get anything else in the garage, and obviously not a car! 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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Maybe we’ll see you on one of those tv programmes when the people come to organise a mass clear up!
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Probably when I am dead, Mary. Julie will get them in to sell it all somewhere. 🙂
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That’s why they invented attics, basements, and garages. So you could make tunnels out of them built by all the stuff we gather.
My Mom was a lover of garage sales. She eventually had 3 or 4 sets of everything for a house (kitchens especially) just in case someone moved, she could help them out. When she finally downsized, it took a dumpster to get rid of all her collections.
We do love our treasures!
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I think we call dumpsters ‘skips’ here. I have considered renting one, I confess. 🙂
Maybe if I just throw it all away, it might be kill or cure!
Best wishes, Pete. x
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It is theaputic for me. I love to throw things away. Just ask my family much to their annoyance and easy cop-out for their disorganization.
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I’ve got also dvd collection, and some are still unpacked. I’ve used to collect mugs from every place I’ve visited. However, I had to stop to do it at some point as lack of space in my cupboard. Collecting books is my another weakness. Cannot stop myself. Enjoy your afternoon! 😊
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I also collected souvenir mugs (and magnets) from wherever I went. But they take up a lot of room. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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My compulsion is books…my daughter like you is old cameras….so we both understand the compulsions…..Amazon has been an excellent source of books for me. chuq
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I have to really stop myself looking at things I just know I will buy. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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I can do that except with books….I am always finding ones on subjects I like and just half to go on a quest to acquire it…….I know it is a sickness my whole house is becoming one big book case….my better half is starting to complain a bit….LOL chuq
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I know that feeling, chuq. 🙂
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Haha….I can relate so very much to this post! As my blog reflects myself a lot: I just have way to many hobbies, and I keep buying new stuff. Like you I have an enormous dvd collection, many still in wrappers, and I keep adding new ones anyway. Movies, tv series, anime…it just keeps growing and growing. The we move on to books: pretty much the same thing. Boardgames? Ditto. I’m glad I quit gaming about 7 years ago and pretty much sold most of my collection, else I would still have that to deal with as well. So why keep buying stuff? No idea…sometimes it’s just hard to resist something. I keep telling myself to stop too…but…then I see a shiny new book, or dvd …and I want it. Well…it could be worse I guess. Some people spent their money on drugs, smokes or alcohol. I like to spent it on stuff like this. So far I have little to no regrets!. Great post Pete, have a great sunday! 😊
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I think the acquisition is the ‘thrill’. Once we have the item, the search is on for the next one! 🙂
In my case Amazon Wish Lists are my downfall.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Haha…well my downfall is probably visiting cons, and specialty shops (I even purposely don’t enter certain stores anymore because I know when I do I’ll probably buy more stuff lol 😂😂). (But yeah…amazon is a close second for me too 😊).
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I get a thrill from Netflix 🙂
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Ah, those books. Curious about them Pete. If you’re near, I would explore those….haha!
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Most of them are non-fiction history, Arlene. And lots of hardbacks about photographs and photography. Not sure they would all be your thing. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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Photography and photographs. wow. I read historical fiction Pete.
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You might like the photo books, but the history is almost all non-fiction. 🙂
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Maybe artists would find treasures here.
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They might indeed, Rachel. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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I have a collection of sewing machines in the attic… Some holiday memories, some teapots, some dolls house furniture… As you say, they just sit there. 😊
When I find the time, I going to photograph them all, to remind me of the memories… Then sell them for some extra pennies to make more memories with. 😊
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That sounds like a good plan, Sallyann. Old sewing machines are considered to be ‘collectible’ by some people these days. I see them promoted as ‘designer’ pieces, for home decoration. And Tea Pot collecting is an industry in itself. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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