Ollie will be seven years old soon. Given that his breed rarely lives beyond the age of ten, we have to accept that he is now past middle age, and becoming old, relatively speaking.
There are times when he still remembers what it was like to play. He rushes around with a soft toy in his mouth, or gets excited when anyone calls at the house. But he doesn’t play with other dogs anymore when we are out, and his free-spirited joyous solo running has slowed down to a perky trot.
The shorter two-hour walks of winter seem to suit him well enough too. He is usually ready to go home before 4 pm now, and sometimes heads for one of the exits of his own accord, even when I am still happily trudging around.
There are some grey hairs visible around his jowls now, and he seems to want more to eat, having taken to begging when we have something, which he never did before. When he doesn’t get a morsel, he will return to his food bowl and finish up any remaining dry food. And he is always ready to flop onto his bed at night, as soon as either of us shows any intention of getting ready for bed. In the mornings, he is reluctant to stir, and sometimes has to be told to go out into the garden, especially when it is very cold, or raining.
But the biggest change in him is seen by his constant search for affection, and visible jealousy when I am giving that attention to anyone else. He seeks lots of cuddles now, and will push himself against my legs when I am reading, typing on the blog, or watching TV. He has always followed me around slavishly, but now he gets even closer, and can’t seem to tolerate me being out of sight.
Perhaps he is feeling those changes inside, the differences in energy, and that need for reassurance. It could be that he has noticed that I am also seven years older, and have slowed down too. He may just be following my example, who knows?
But he can be sure that he will continue to be looked after, loved and cared for, no matter how old he gets.
That was so touching! Ollie will definitely live over ten. Ollie is a Shar Pei, right? They tend to get infections from sand or moisture getting into their wrinkles on their face and snout, so clean regularly. Thank you for the heart warming and sort of sad post! KEEP WRITING!
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Many thanks for your comment, and your thoughts. Hopefully, Ollie will live a much longer life. But we also have to be aware that he may not.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Beautifully written, and a gorgeous dog!
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Many thanks, McWilson. Glad you like Ollie. 🙂
And I appreciate you following this blog too.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Your post was so touching, it got me sad and worried about my dogs getting older in a few years too. Though they’re 6 and 5 only. But it’s the first time I felt something like this. But have to deal with it. Just reminds me of the appropriateness of the quote, “Dogs lives are too short. Their only fault, really.”
Lots of love to both of you, enjoy and celebrate every moment together!
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Thank you so much, Srijana. Ollie has some good years left yet, we hope. But it has to be faced that he is now an ‘older’ dog for his breed.
Best wishes, Pete.
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I have had several really good dogs (is there any other kind?) grow old. They git it their all as long as they can, but they do rest a lot and need more contact and confort. I miss them, each one of them. Wrmest regards, Theo
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Since Julie began working part-time, she has also started to notice how Ollie requires a lot more ‘fuss’. He will get that fuss, he needn’t worry. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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Unfortunately, the bigger the dog, the shorter the life. I don’t know why this is. I’ve always had big dogs (Greyhounds and Lurchers) and they never live long enough!
Wishing you and Ollie many more happy years together.
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Thanks, Annabelle. He is classed as a ‘medium dog’, just over 28 kg. I am hoping that the pessimistic forecasts are proved wrong. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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I always think of my dogs as big, but I guess they’re medium as well. Greyhounds and Lurchers can weigh anything between 15 and 30kg, and the average lifespan is 12-14 years. Saying that, my last Lurcher was 15 when she died last year, and the one before that lived to nearly 18, so the statistics aren’t always right! Best to take them as a rough guide only.
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Many thanks for following this blog. That’s much appreciated.
Best wishes, Pete.
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One man and his dog…
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Thanks, Jack! 🙂
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My little dog, Biffi lived to 14 but he definitely slowed down from about 8 or 9. He went from running around in mad figure eights in the garden to basically napping all day and occasionally barking at the wind.
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Thanks, Abbi. If Ollie makes it to 14 I will be happy with that. (If I’m still here of course. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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I hadn’t stopped to realize the connection between our dog’ age(12) and her increased desire to stay close. When we sit in the living room, she plops down on the rug between us. She, like Ollie, has definitely become more people centered and craves our company.
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I can only presume they don’t understand the changes going on as they get older, and it worries them. Perhaps that’s why they stick closer, and need that extra reassurance?
Best wishes, Pete.
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Of course ours increases her chance of little stray bits of food near us. Maybe you are right, though.
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You too Pete! 🙂
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A lovely sentimental post Pete. Keep punching Ollie.
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Thanks, Lloyd. I was noticing small changes in him, and it suddenly dawned on me why they were happening. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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Best wishes Pete.
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Great, i see a wonderful team. 🙂
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Thanks, Michael. We are definitely a team. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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You look like this way, Pete!On this picture you both are looking like “The Hunters Team” too. 🙂 Michael
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I think we are both pretty tired in that photo, Michael. We had been walking a long way. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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🙂
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AHHH so great to see you both. I remember well when my beloved mini-doxie Skid got his first grey hairs.
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Thanks, Lara. Ollie is developing the start of his ‘grizzled muzzle’. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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A lovely tribute to Ollie. He is getting older, and you are giving him what he needs and wants. Beautiful countryside!
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Thanks, Jennie. The photo was taken in the hills of Cumbria, 300 miles away, in the north west. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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Thanks, Pete. For those of us far away, your photos are much appreciated- even if they’re 300 miles away. That’s a mere drop in the bucket. 🙂 Best to you, Pete.
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In England, 300 miles is a ‘serious trip’. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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I can understand that!
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I am glad that Ollie has you. You know I wish you both a long and happy union! You both look mighty fit to me and that you have a lot more miles ahead! best always, Michele
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Thanks very much, Michele. I am sure we both have a good few years left yet. I have just started to notice Ollie slowing down, and looking older. Much like me! 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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It is a shame that they must grow old as well…..I had to watch my Baby Girl, Jaz go from lots of energy to hard to get up…..I wears on you….chuq
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Ollie is still doing well, chuq. I can just see the start of him getting older though. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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It is hard to see their mortality…..at least for me….chuq
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How nice to see you two today! A fine pair you two are. Your description of Ollie reminds me of Bear. His eyes look very old. He doesn’t do much but lie around. Even when I try to play fetch with him, he doesn’t have that enthusiasm from two years ago. He turned 9 this month. We try to keep him warm and happy. Today he went out to the wilderness and sniffed around. That makes him like a puppy.
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Thanks, Cindy. I just keep Ollie’s routine as normal as possible. As he gets older, disruption of that routine seems to affect him more. He has a way of looking very sad, and that makes me feel guilty. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete. x
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I love that picture of the two of you together Pete. I’m fervently hoping that Ollie stays with you for several more years.
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I do too, Kim. I have to hope that he defies the statistics. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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I hadn’t realised that Ollie’s breed wasn’t very long-lived. He’s been such a great companion for you. Love the pic of you two together. Our standard schnauzer, Indi, is only five and going great guns. They have a fairly long life span.
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Thanks, Peggy. Because Ollie is not a ‘pedigree’ dog, we are hoping that he might last a lot longer. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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Hi Ollie! In dog years, how old is he Pete? You should post more photos of Ollie and you Pete.
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He is about 50 in human years, Arlene. But his life expectancy is a lot less than ours of course.
I don’t have that many of us together, I think there are only 3-4 on the blog.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Maybe it’s time you look for an additional pet. Our pets grow old and sometimes they just leave us sometimes suddenly too.
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I don’t want anymore pets after Ollie, Arlene. I want the freedom to be able to go to places where dogs are not allowed. I love having Ollie, but don’t want another dog.
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I understand. Here in our place we really need to have pets as guards too to unwanted intruders.
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Our Pickle [a Staffie] will be fifteen this year if she makes it till August – and there are no signs that she won’t… [Then again, there were no signs that Digger would be gone before she was five 😦 .] Watching my daughter’s French Bulldog belt around like a bullet from a pistol reminds me that Pickle was like that only a few years ago. [ At the moment we are looking after the Frenchie while my daughter has new fences erected, one stepson’s labrador, while he’s on a course and the other stepson’s beagle while they’re away ski-ing.]
When Digger first came, the dogs ran into the garden to play and Pickle suddenly yelped. She stood there shaking as if she’d been hit (she always shakes when she’s told off and we think she’d been under a strict regime before she came to us). I suspect the old girl had forgotten about her arthritis and had a sharp reminder when she tried to leap around like a four-year-old. After that, their games were more of the roll-over-wrestling variety. Or Pickle would crouch while Digger tore around the garden and bark at her as she passed.
It’s sad to see her so stiff when she used to be so active. (I gather athletes and dancers get arthritis bad – probably why mine is hardly worth mentioning.) But at least her tail is still wagging.
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Thanks for that Cathy. Nice to read about the dogs in your life.
As long as the tail is still wagging, I agree with that. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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What a great picture of you and Ollie Pete and a sweet tribute to your friendship. I hope he lives beyond his expected age, but only if healthily; in any case enjoy your remaining years together. 🙂
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Thanks, Susanne. My friend took that photo in 2016, and I have always liked it. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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Jack Eason sure a comment for you, eh? I enlarged the photo to get a good look at my buddy there – and you too, of course.
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Thanks, GP. That’s a 2016 photo, but I have always liked it. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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Thats a great pic from your trip to The Lakes.
I see my Jackie getting on a bit now, she’s almost 10, but I think I’m slowing down quicker than her. I’m certainly getting fatter 🙂
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Cheers, Eddy. I can still fit into all my clothes from six years ago, but I can certainly feel the ‘weight’ of my body more now. Probably because my legs are less capable of supporting it.
🙂 Best wishes, Pete.
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Ah Pete. We know the procession of the living goes on and we all move toward the front of the line and then disappear into the fog while newborns join the rear and through the years move toward our empty spaces. I am now too old for a dog for a pup will probably outlive me and would wind up in the care of my children – perhaps. Enjoy your years together. He is a joy of a dog. Best regards from cool and rainy Florida.
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Thanks very much, Frank. I doubt Florida is quite as ‘cool’ as Beetley! 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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It is hard to watch the change, isn’t it Pete. I feel like this about my parents as I watch them change and get slower, frailer and generally older.
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Of course I saw that in my Mum, Robbie. But it feels somehow harder to see it in Ollie, as he relies on us so much more. Does that sound strange? 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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No, not really. Ollie is a big part of your life now and you spend a lot of time with him.
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Our little Patterdale is fourteen next month and behaving very like Ollie. Although he has an injured leg he forgets and bounds down the steps to the garden to see if the foxes have intruded. He is very grey round the face and bottom! He is also quite clingy with hubby and has begun to complain when we go out without him in the daytime. he doesn’t seem to mind in the evenings, he just goes to sleep.
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He still seems to be doing well at 14, Julie. If Ollie makes it to that age, I will consider he had a ‘good run’. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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Don’t us humans age in the same way, Pete? Some of what Ollie needs or wants sounds pretty good to be about now… although not necessarily you providing it. 🙂
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be=me.. (my point exactly)
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I can really see the similarities in us, Doug. Except the following around everywhere! 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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..and being attracted to fire hydrants. 🙂
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A photo of two old codgers looking out for one another. 😉
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That sums it up nicely, Jack. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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A very poignant blog post, Pete. I’m absolutely positive Ollie is aware that he is aging. He is such a wonderful companion—a real treasure!
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Thanks, David. I can see him accepting his limitations now, just as I do too. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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Interesting to observe these changes in him, Pete – and great family photo!
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Thanks, John. That was taken in 2016, on a walking holiday in the north-west. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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I hope you still have a few happy years together ahead of you, Pete.
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I hope so too, Mary. He may well defy the accepted norm, and live for another seven years. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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Your love for Ollie shines through. Nice imagery too.
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Thanks, mate. We took him on and made him part of the family, so just have to do right by him. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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Dogs are the best.
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Goods dogs are, at least. Not so sure about ‘bad tempered’ ones. 🙂
Cheers, Pete.
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Well let’s hope you and Ollie have a few more years together! He is certainly a great companion for you Pete and although I have considered getting a dog I still don’t feel now is the right time. They can be good pals, but they also need a lot of looking after and restrict where you can travel to. And I am not getting any younger!
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I would urge you to not get a dog, Jude. You still get out and about a lot, and have reasons to travel too. Once you get a dog, the responsibility can take over your life, and severely restrict what you are able to do. I wouldn’t ever change having Ollie, but would definitely not get another dog when he’s gone.
We have a 92 year-old lady in the street behind us. She has a small dog, but can no longer take it out, due to her age and infirmity. So she relies on the kindness of her immediate neighbours for dog-walking, vet trips, and such.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Ah, bless him!
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In some ways, I am happy that we are ‘slowing down’ together, Sue. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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Hmm, that makes sense
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Lovely post. Dogs have a good way of letting owners know when adjustments are made. My last Yorkshire Terrier would Hill walk but started enjoying spells of piggy backing. It worked well.
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🙂 You can do that with a Yorkie, but Ollie weighs over 28 kg!
Thanks for reading, and leaving your much-appreciated comment.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Beautiful countryside.
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That’s not around here, Daniel. It is in Cumbria, in the north-west. On a walking holiday, a couple of years back. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lake_District
Best wishes, Pete. 🙂
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