When I was young, I often damaged my clothes. Climbing over walls and fences, trying to get across gaps that were too wide, or playing rough games and sports. If I returned home with scuffed shoes, I would be told that I should be more careful. If I tore my trousers or shorts, my Mum would wash them, then repair or patch the tear. I would also be told that clothes were expensive, and had to be taken better care of. Wearing those heavily-sewn or patched items soon became embarrassing, and I slowly began to learn my lesson.
When I got into my teens, I took pride in my appearance. My shoes were polished, clothes clean and pressed, and I wouldn’t have been seen dead in something stained, or torn. I took this to be part of the growing-up process, and welcomed the change in my attitude.
Just recently, I have seen many examples of women (and some men) wearing clothes that are deliberately damaged before they even buy them. Ripped jeans, torn leggings, and some items that look like they have more rips and holes than material. This is not the niche fashion of the Punk era, nor something reserved for some inner-city ‘smart set’. It is ubiquitous, even in places as small and rural as our local town of Dereham, and the nearby village of Beetley. Out and about earlier today, it seemed to me that every female between the ages of 14 and 40 was wearing some version of a garment like the one shown in the above photo.
Someone was clever enough to persuade a huge chunk of the population to part with good money for something that others might well have thrown into a bin. I salute that person, for their business acumen, and sharp thinking.
But why they buy them is a mystery to me.
Great post, Pete. There is so much humor in fashion if we can appreciate itโthe Emperor has no clothes! Whoever knew that young men wearing sagging pants would become a thing? Ha-ha!
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Thanks, Pete. Just as well my Dad died when he did. He would have been apoplectic! ๐
Best wishes, Pete.
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I still remember when someone put rocks in a boxes, called them pets, sold them and even worse, people bought them, lots of them. LOL
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I also remember those ‘pet rocks’. It never ceases to amaze me how consumers can be duped into buying such tat.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Hm, there was this one time when someone in the household wore my denim jeans because mine looked so similar to theirs, same waistline too. That was my only available pair of jeans because the other one was in the laundry so yeah, I had no jeans for a week because my two pairs had to go to the laundry. I was so infuriated that I bought ripped jeans because no one in the household wore them, which means they would never confuse it for theirs. I bought those for a practical reason but they never really were my style so I kind of regretted it. If I like, shared my dresser with three other people and we keep confusing our jeans, then maybe it serves a purpose because we can tell the difference by the rips, but other than that, I don’t have a use for them.
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Thanks for your thoughts, BFG. Being able to tell which jeans belong to a person by the rips is a new one on me. ๐
Best wishes, Pete.
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The workers in Chinese factories must think that we in “the west” must be quite mad when they have to rip and tear newly made clothes to be exported
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I agree. There are so many countries where having some decent clothes will actually mean you can find employment. Not just tear them up for a fashion trend.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Count me in as “no” vote to ripped clothing. I have never been trendy, anyway, even in my youth. I really prefer classic, vintage clothing. Even buttons used to be cute! Oh well, One more indication, that the world is mad! haha!
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That’s right, Michele. It’s not us, it’s them! ๐
Best wishes, Pete.
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absolutely-haha!
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I have a pair of ripped jeans. I can only blame fashion. I guess some of it is also the allure of a little bit of cheeky skin. Anyway, whenever I wear them Little O wants to get his screwdriver to fix them!
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I’m with Little O! ๐
Best wishes, Pete.
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Welcome to my (soon to be 13) granddaughters world of fashion. She has a pair of jeans which have more space than denim!!
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Someone somewhere made themselves a lot of money, John. ๐
As Lincoln said, “You can fool some of the people all of the time.”
Best wishes, Pete.
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Where I come from, torn clothes are a sign of poverty and hardship, not fashion. This may label me a snob, but I truly do not understand this trend.
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Thanks, Osman. Glad you agree.
Best wishes, Pete.
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We went to Philadelphia last week and my son-in-law had jeans splattered with paint. I asked if he was painting and he said, no. He bought them that way. I was dazzled. Most are my clothes are well-used but not ragged,
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Paint-splattered is a new one on me, Lara. ๐ I missed out on that ‘business opportunity’.
Best wishes, Pete.
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I want to add they were multi-colored spots all over, front and back and I could not imagine how he could do that painting. Dah!
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I am bewildered as well as to why anyone would pay money for torn jeans…lol
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Thanks, Dorianna. Glad you agree.
(Note that Gmail marked your comment as ‘Unsafe’ and a possible ‘Scam’. I checked out your site and it looked OK to me)
Best wishes, Pete.
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I have no idea why Google would do that…will have to go look around in case I have been hacked but that is unlikely. Google can be a pain sometime…have had that website for a very long time.
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In they hearts they want to be workers. ๐ Wait some months and we all will wear old fashioned clothes again. Unbelievable but you only need to propagate climate change, and the people will not stop using airplanes and car. No they will wear used clothes. Michael
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They are not even ‘used clothes’, Michael. They are expensive new ones, deliberately destroyed. ๐
Best wishes, Pete.
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You are definitely not alone with your thoughts on ripped jeans Pete…My dear father when he was alive just could not understand it and on a visit to see my parents with our youngest in tow proudly sporting her new ripped jeans…My father was absolutely aghast he asked her if she was hard up and she said ‘No grandad…Why?” She then had a lecture on her jeans and what it portrayed to people followed by some money to get herself a proper pair of trousers…I had to be the peacemaker there or it could have turned out different …But she never wore them when visiting him again as there was no way he would be swayed in his views on the wearing of ripped jeans ๐
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Thanks, Carol. I am obviously on the side of your Dad. ๐
Best wishes, Pete.
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I thought me be and so was I …haha…Stuck between a rock and a hard place…haha
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I am suspicious it is fashion for fashionโs sake. I can remember a time in the 70โs when I spent hours taking the hems out of my jeans and fringing the bottom. In a way, I suppose I was doing the same thing. I also remember lightly bleaching jeans and adorning them with patches where there were no holes. Of course I was old enough to be paying my own way.
I donโt get the ripped jeans but my daughter buys them that way… I suppose every generation has their thing.
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Very true, Maggie. I remember people bleaching jeans, and covering them in flower patches too. But this ‘ripped’ thing seems to have crossed into a much wider age group. Many older people wear them, and I suppose I am old-fashioned enough to believe that they ‘should know better’. ๐
Best wishes, Pete.
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I knew you post about this one day, Pete. I was sitting on the floor with children, and my wonderful assistant teacher walked over. She is 40-something, and always well dressed. She had a rip in her new jeans! Of course I put my hand on her rip and said, โNaomi, you have a tear in your new pants. Iโm so sorry. I thought youโd want to know.โ Of course she replied, โJennie, theyโre supposed to be like that.โ We laughed. I just donโt get it either, Pete. This โfashionโ has nothing to do with kids. It is popular everywhere… but not with me. I still want to crease my pants with an iron. And, I dress fairly well for a preschool teacher. This is one I will take a stand on. Best to you, Pete.
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As I said, Jennie “14 to 40”. And many much older too. I usually understand fashion, even though I am past bothering about it, but the ripped clothes thing is beyond me. ๐
Best wishes, Pete.
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Me, too! Best to you, Pete. And sorry about my typo, you instead of youโd.
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I often wonder what the workers in the places these are manufactured make of the Western world. They would be right in thinking we are crazy to pay good money for ripped clothing. Can you imagine being paid to rip clothes?
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Most are made in China, and other countries in the East. They must indeed wonder how we have money to ‘waste’ on torn clothing, Elizabeth. ๐
Best wishes, Pete.
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Agreed.
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I agree, Pete.
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I suspect there are few younger people reading this blog, so there will not be many comments that disagree, Mary. ๐
Best wishes, Pete.
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I like the trend as long as it doesn’t go overboard. I liked it in the 80s and wore it. I also had some ripped jeans as recently as a couple of years ago but around here, anyway, the trend has come and gone. My favorite pair of ripped jeans was late 80s designer jeans that I wore the knees out. They were ripped naturally. Otherwise, I let the designers do it. There’s a method to there madness.
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Well I confess that to hear of you wearing them comes as a surprise, Pam. But then you are a lot younger than me.
I still don’t get it… ๐
Best wishes, Pete.
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Are they preparing for the apocalypse or something? And they cost more shredded. Did our sew-on/iron-on patches cost a fortune?
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I have no idea why they follow this trend, Roland. Just to ‘fit-in’, I suspect. ๐
It reminds me of ‘The Emperor’s New Clothes’.
Best wishes, Pete.
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You should see the students at my high school. They all wear shredded clothes. Bizarre!
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One fashion trend I am content to have escaped, Cindy.
Best wishes, Pete.
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By contrast, this reminded me that once it was trendy to sew patches on our clothes even when they werenโt torn. You could buy patches by mail order from the classified pages of music papers like NME or Melody Maker. It might be a Union Flag or Stars and Stripes or a Peace logo or Ban the Bomb.
Itโs true, now if I tear my knees I set my jeans aside for gardening.
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My Mum’s patches were not so ‘trendy’, BF. ๐
Best wishes, Pete.
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i don’t get it either Pete. ๐ ๐
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Thanks for not getting it, Wilma. ๐
Best wishes, Pete.
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Nowadays it takes a lot of money to look poor!
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Takes ‘shabby chic’ to a new level, GP. ๐
Best wishes, Pete.
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So true, haha, and it costs you dearly!
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Its playing havoc with the second hand market that I rely on for my attire, once they are disposed of and sold onto the ‘rag trade’ they are discarded rather than sold onto second hand resellers in in the East, as they have no resale value. What am I to do ๐
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Looks like you will have to start a fashion trend. Buy rags! ๐
warmest regards, Ed
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Sell the original worn out ones back to them mate. ๐
Best wishes, Pete.
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I assume the torn items are a part of the devoted world of fashion. To fit in one follows the fashionista trend. Personally I’d never waste precious $$ on clothing I consider damaged goods before I’d had even the opportunity to wear them. It makes no sense to pay top dollar void of normal amount of fabric. Crazy world ๐
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Thanks for reading and commenting.
I am happy that you agree. ๐
Best wishes, Pete.
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I certainly don’t get it either. You can also pay a few hundred dollars for permanently dirty jeans that look like you just got off the farm. Or pay a lot less and actually do some work. Crazy. ๐
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Glad it’s not just me, Susanne. ๐
Best wishes, Pete.
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Dear, Pete, I don’t get that either…
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Thanks, Kerin. Welcome aboard. ๐
Best wishes, Pete.
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Pete, I want the job of taking nice clothes and shredding it before jacking up the price – what a nice gig!
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You just have to give credit to whoever thought it up, John. ๐
Best wishes, Pete.
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This has been a popular fashion choice here since the 1980s Pete.๐คท๐ปโโ๏ธ
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Incredible! ๐
Best wishes, Pete.
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I’ve looked like a bum most of my life, starting in early childhood. Always a mess, except on Sundays and Wednesday nights, when I stopped going regularly to church. Haven’t actually purchased an article of clothing since 1987, the year I met my second wife. She does that for me. But one thing she would never do is buy me britches that come ruined and torn to hell. This is something I can do for myself! ๐
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Thanks, Charlie. Pleased to hear that you also don’t ‘get it’. ๐
Best wishes, Pete.
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This world and these young people have gone to hell in a hand basket! The nonsense and the tattoos, the non stop looking at phones! The incredibly bad diets or the over focus on healthy diets! The day I stop consuming dairy products and wheat bread will be my last day on the once green earth! ๐
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Ah, don’t get me started on tattoos! ๐
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Why not, Pete? ๐ All my step kids have them – as does the copper MC in my draft novel/series.
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I just don’t like them, Roland. At least not the type that cover full arms, are all over necks and faces, or the whole length of legs. I have never liked them much, and since the trend has exploded, I just wonder what they think they will look like when they are much older, and resemble faded blobs. I wote something sympathetic about a tattoo once, perhaps I will reblog it today.
Best wishes, Pete.
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I totally agree…it is like those dudes with the 5 O’Clock shadow……or those that shave their heads because they are going bald…..chuq
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Well my hair is very close-cropped, but not yet shaved. ๐
And those so-called ‘beards’ are just people too lazy to shave.
Best wishes, Pete.
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I agree laziness is all too common. And white giys with shaved heads look like giant cue balls to me…..few can pull the look off. chuq
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I ripped my jeans leg two weeks ago while rock scrambling in Pine Creek Canyon. I was lucky for two reasons: (1) I was sent head first over a ledge, but escaped injury, and (2) I now have designer jeans!.
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You should get a ‘Logo’, David. ๐
Best wishes, Pete.
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Well, I certainly don’t get it! If I wanted, I could rip my own clothes, and a lot cheaper it would be!! But, I want to look decent!
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That’s right, Sue. Why pay extra for for ‘designer” items, when you can tear up your own perfectly good jeans? ๐
Best wishes, Pete.
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Bang to rights, Pete!
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Maybe because the trend got to be to wear jeans so tight that they could no longer move easily without cutting some slack? Just an observation from a like-minded small town American.
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It may have originated along those lines. But somebody took it to the next level! ๐
Thanks, mcwilsonky.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Most definitely! Cut out shirts skirts, dress and even swimsuits – like they aren’t already tiny enough? Good Lord the nudity is really out of control everywhere I think. LOL
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I don’t get it either, but then, I don’t suppose I am supposed to get it. ๐
Warmest regards, Theo
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True, Theo. If we ‘got it’, they might stop wearing them! ๐
Best wishes, Pete.
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Mystery to me too and I’m twenty three! I find ripped clothing very impractical, especially when it’s chilly.
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Thanks for backing me up, Kate. ๐
Best wishes, Pete.
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