In quite a long life so far, I have met many nice people.
I have also met just as many who were not at all nice.
Outside of my close circle of good friends, it has become harder to meet people now I am retired. I do encounter other dog walkers of course, as well as some people my wife meets through work. Mostly, they are very nice, though some locals around the Beetley area can be a little stand-offish. And being my age doesn’t help, when many of the local residents are significantly younger, or much older.
But I do know a great number of very nice people. More than a hundred of them in fact, from countries all over the world. In many cases, they are counted among the nicest people I know, and treasured as friends.
But I have never met any of them.
That is because they are my blogging friends. Some who have been with me since 2012 when I started blogging, and others who came along more recently. The people who inhabit our WordPress world, and regularly feature in the community we share, are all genuine and lovely people. They are kind, considerate, thoughtful, and caring too. They help other bloggers, worry if you are not around, and rush to offer advice, suggestions, and encouragement. They support you when you are unwell, or feeling down, and it is my experience that nothing is too much trouble for them.
They are helpful when you are stuck on something, and display a loyalty that is hard to find outside of our electronic acquaintance.
They are the nicest people I have never met.
This is such a lovely post!
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Glad you like it, Abbi. It is 100% sincere. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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And I reel the same way about you! I have not forgotten the kindness you showed me last year. You are also one of the supportive bloggers that I know of. Friends-are one of the best perks about blogging, thank you Pete!
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Thanks, Michele. You are always so kind with your remarks, and a much-valued friend, on or off the blog. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete. x
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now this made my morning!! and the feelings are mutual! your fan, Michele
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I think the blogging community is wonderful too, Pete. I can’t believe the amazing support I have received here. I am glad you feel the same way.
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It took me a while to realise that everyone was so nice! I wasn’t used to that before, Robbie.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Amen and My sentiments, Egg-Sactly! 😀
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Thanks, TamrahJo, Glad to hear you feel the same.
Best wishes, Pete.
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You have built a bridge Pete, not a wall. That bridge connects us all. I love you for that.
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Thanks for those kind words, Lara. You are a lovely person, and a cherished friend. 🙂
Your comment lifts my mood above the rain and dark skies, and is yet another reason to make blogging worthwhile.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Blogs make the world less scary, more kind and you, my friend, are the king of kind.
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This is a beautiful post!
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Thanks very much, Richa. I am pleased that you liked it. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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Lovely post, Pete, and very true. I’m forever talking to my mother about my blogging friends, although I’m not sure she quite gets what it means. All lovely people, I agree. ♥
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Thanks, Olga. People who are not bloggers rarely ‘get it’. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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And you are one those those nice people I met here Pete. Let’s keep blogging. Let’s widen our world more by meeting new friends here.
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Yes indeed, Arlene. Lots more nice people to discover out there! 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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I was very worried about starting a blog, expecting “troll” activity in the comments, but so far I have been pleasantly surpised 🙂
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Thanks, MBB. I have only ever seen trolls on political blogs. Most general bloggers seem to be kind and generous by nature. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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You are so right Pete, time to ditch Facebook 🙂
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Many bloggers get a lot out of Facebook. I have never been on that platform. 🙂
Cheers, Pete.
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Great post 🙂 Everything you said here is very kind concerning all of your blogger friends 🙂 Anyway, keep up the great work as always 🙂
P.S. it is also refreshing to see another close blogger friend that loves Paul Verhoeven’s Showgirls every bit as much as me 🙂
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David Miller is also a big fan of Verhoeven’s films, John.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Very well said Pete. 😊
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Thanks, Susanne. I hope you are enjoying your cruise. Torrential rain in Beetley!
Best wishes, Pete.
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Just got back this morning, thanks! We had a fabulous time! 🙂
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I completely understand this point of view, and agree that fellow bloggers/writers are some of the nicest people out there.
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Thanks very much for your comment. I am sure that you are one of those nice bloggers too.
You look very nice from your photo, it has to be said. 🙂
Best wishes from a rainy England.
Pete.
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I find the same thing. The people online who comment are the nicest people I know. Warmest regards, Teho
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Thanks, Theo.
I hope that your hand is OK.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Still, it is “so far so good” and the left hand is slowly learning to pick up the slack, Warmest regards, Theo
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Thanks. Yes, so far, so good continues. I think I managed to by-pass major hurt. Warmest regards, Theo
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What a beautiful post Pete. I totally agree and I’m very grateful to have found your supportive community. All my best.
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Thanks very much, Cheryl. And now you are part of that community, and a good friend too. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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I’ve been blogging for less than a year, but I agree with your sentiments, Pete. That is one of the things I find most appealing about blogging. People look out for one another and show mutual respect. How refreshing!
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And it just keeps getting better!
Thanks, Pete.
Best wishes, Pete. 🙂
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You did a great job of putting into words what I feel as well!
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Pleased to hear that, Jim. This is a truly great community.
Best wishes, Pete.
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best wishes to you as well, Pete!
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Aww Pete! This is lovely. I’m not on any other social media like Facebook, Twitter, or Instagram because of all the hatefulness you find so often on those platforms, but WordPress for the most part is an oasis from that. I can count the number of times I’ve received a negative response to a post on the fingers of one hand, and those few times were in response to political posts, so I was expecting that. I consider myself blessed to have such wonderful blogging friends like you!🤗
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That goes both ways, dear Kim. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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Couldn’t agree more, Pete! And I have met a number of bloggers, it was as if we had known each other for ages!
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That’s great to hear, Sue. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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😊😊
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You’re so correct about the WordPress Community. Some of my best supporters and commentators on my blogposts weren’t even my close friends but people I met online.
It’s so amazing that this platform builds bridges of relationship between so many countries…
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I agree completely! 🙂
Thanks very much, Eromonsele.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Even when I’m not traveling Pete, I still go around the world thanks to my blogging friends!
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So true. We get to explore the world, its customs, its peoples, and can appreciate that despite the differences, we are all the same inside.
Best wishes, Pete.
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We try very hard to hyde the fact that we’re not always as nice as Dr. Jekyll.
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An R.L. Stevenson pun, David. Well done! 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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I agree I have met some of the nicest people….and on occasion some truly a/holes….but for the most part most are just wonderful people….chuq
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Having a political blog like yours does tend to attract more ‘outspoken’ and potentially confrontational people, chuq. But then you have the ‘good ones’, like me! 🙂 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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Exactly…..we could all use more dedicated readers…chuq
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Awww… That is so nice, Pete. Thank you! And I feel exactly the same way.
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Thanks, Jennie. Where else would we find so many kindred spirits?
Best wishes, Pete.
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You’ve got that right! 🙂
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Such a beautiful sentiment, Pete, and one I share. This community is unlike many others I have been a part of. Thank you for wording it so elegantly.
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It was my pleasure, Maggie. And you are included in those comments of course. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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Thank you, Pete.
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Oh but we can be nasty as well. Grrrrrrrrrr!
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I’m sure we all have a ‘dark side’, David. I know I do. But everyone seems to be able to suppress that during their dealings with fellow bloggers. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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How true, it annoys me when people say things like ‘The internet is bad’ or ‘wish the Internet had never been invented.’ They read in the paper that someone has committed suicide because of on line bullying, which of course is awful, but we can’t dismiss the good. Facetiming family across the ocean or chatting to people in places you will never visit… and of course having an insight into totally different lives.
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Thanks, Janet. Without the Internet, many people would lead isolated and sad lives. It makes up for those who do suffer from online trolling and bullying, but that has to keep being addressed too.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Lovely post. I have had the opportunity to meet several bloggers in real life – and they were all just as nice.
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Thanks, Mary. I have only ever met one, but she has since moved to America. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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And who knows, some of us might drop by Norfolk one day!
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You will always be welcome in Beetley, Marina. 🙂
Don’t come today though, the rain is torrential!
Best wishes, Pete.
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You’ll get to meet me one day, I’m sure of it!
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I met a fellow blogger once. She was living at Lakenheath Air Base, married to an American air force guy. We all met for coffee in Swaffham, and it was just as if we had always been friends, though she was half my age. Then he got transferred, and they went to live in North Carolina.
She stopped blogging, but I am still in touch via Twitter now and then.
Best wishes, Pete.
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I loved this post. Pete, when you speak your heart out you always feel light, fresh and happy and when you say something like this, others feel blessed to know that you care about them. This is what you needed just to make you smile. I am sure when you previewed your own post, you smiled.
Keep smiling and sharing your feelings.
Lovelove.
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Thanks, Suzan. I do smile, very often. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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Aww, that’s so cute. You are welcome. 🙂✌
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(There is a photo of me smiling, on my ‘About’ page)
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GOING TO CHECK IT NOWWW!!! I want to see smiling, Pete.🤪🥰
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Didn’t that just make me smile. You have a really cute dog and you are, I must say this, a handsome man. Keep smiling like that. You look good. 🙂✌
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Thanks for your kindness, Suzan. 🙂
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Your welcome. 🙂✌
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So true Pete. For all the ills of social media, the vitriol, the trolls, the idiots, I find my blog and others an oasis of niceness.
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I think that’s why blogging is so much more satisfying than Facebook or Twitter. People have to invest time in it for it to work. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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That’s thought provoking: is it the extra effort that makes people more likely to let their gentler, kinder side show? Or is it the people who happen to be kinder are more likely to put the effort needed? Is a higher threshold of entry the differentiator?
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It could be all or any of the above, EW. Many bloggers are also very active on Facebook and other platforms, but the time and trouble needed for ‘proper’ blogging tends to sort out the more committed ones.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Lovely sentiments Pete, thank you, especially when the internet is often seen (with some justification, sadly) as a dumping-ground for all sorts of indefensible bile. I’m just reading a new book by Ben Elton which highlights this, and I think it will be worth a review when I’ve finished it 🙂
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Thanks, Jon. I will look forward to the review when you post it. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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What a lovely post
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Thanks Alex. Glad you liked it.
Best wishes, Pete.
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