On an unusually hot and sunny afternoon last week, I was chatting to a fellow dog-walker when I felt an incredibly sharp pain at the back of my head. It was best described as being hit by an air-rifle pellet, or being stabbed by someone using a spike of some kind. I yelled loudly, and jumped forward, quickly turning to see if someone was behind me. The man I was talking to pointed to the space above my head, and declared, “It’s a horsefly”. I have had horsefly bites on my legs in the past, and they can be painful. But this one on my head was much worse, and was throbbing immediately.
I carried on with my walk, and by the time I got over the river onto Hoe Rough, the swelling was the size of an egg, and pulsing painfully. As I type this, I can still feel the remains of that hard lump above my right ear.
Yesterday afternoon, I was stepping into the bath, prior to getting ready to take Ollie out. As I did so, I caught the inside of my left leg on the edge of the bath. It was little more than a glancing blow, hardly even a ‘knock’. Yet it made me shout in pain so loudly, Ollie’s head appeared, to see what was happening. It was really painful, and by the time I was out of the bath and getting dried, there was a bruise appearing, the size of a coin.
I have been lucky so far in life. I have not had to have any major surgery, and have never broken an arm, leg, or even an ankle. There have been my fair share of falls, bumps, and cuts over the years, and I did break four fingers on my left hand in a very bad car accident when I was 32. But whatever injury I ever had, I never thought too much about it, and never once made a fuss.
So how is it that I suddenly have zero pain threshold for things like a small impact on my leg, or the bite of an insect? What changed along the way? I’m sure it cannot just be age, as I know older people who have bravely endured surgery or broken limbs quite recently. Is it my perception of pain that has altered, or can a body actually change how it registers levels of pain?
Whatever the reason, I don’t like it.
Pain is worse, and healing takes longer. That sums up old(er) age. Best to you, Pete. I hope you are finally healing.
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Thanks, Jennie. I still have the remains of that lump on my head. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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Wow!
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Could that horsefly have escaped from a bio-warfare lab? 🙂 Warmest regards, Theo
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It had a long flight from Wuhan. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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It could be the lab is closer. There are warmongers all over the planet. Warmest regards, Theo
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Yes, we have a very deadly one in Wiltshire. Only 200 miles as the Horsefly flies.
https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-48540653
Best wishes, Pete.
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PS. the older I get the easier I bruise, which would explain the tub. Warmest regards, Theo
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Sounds horrible, Pete! Never heared about horse flies attacking people. Maybe a reminiscense on Alfred Hitchcock? Or a little flying saucer with a bug inside the navigation system. Lol
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More like the flying saucer than Hitchcock. They are very determined! 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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🙂 If i remember right, there are some airfields in the North. Maybe a little drone from the RAF testing area. 😉
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Hi ete. Have broken a couple of ribs, my left foot and wrist. The wrist needed surgery; a plate and 5 pins. Its worked fine now for a decade. Got a pain in my hip two weeks ago. No time to see an orthopedic doc. I lived with it. Two wees and its better now. It takes bravery to face old age! stay well!
Besties.
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I can usually take a knock or pain pretty well. Not long ago, I wouldn’t have even noticed knocking my leg against the bath. Might just be that I am focusing on things more lately. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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I do think there is something about how our sensitivity to pain may increase over time. Couple that with the annoying more common occurrence for things starting to hurt for no apparent reason, and it’s like we’re old cars whose warranty is almost up.
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I think I had used up my warranty when I decided to leave my job as an EMT and go to work for the police. I already had enough aches and pains then, and I was just 49. But small knocks and bumps have never given me so much trouble previously. I think I will have to accept that 68 is some kind of ‘crunch age’ for feeling pain. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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Ouch! I’m sorry Pete. Horse fly bites are awful. Almost as bad as bee stings in my opinion.
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It certainly hurt as much as a bee sting, Kim, if not more.
Best wishes, Pete.
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I hope it was just coincidental that two injuries happened so close together rather than a trend about your pain tolerance. Hope that it doesn’t occur a third time.
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Small things that were both unusually painful. That was a new experience for me, Elizabeth.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Sorry to hear Pete, let’s hope it’s not a trend that continues…
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It surprised me, more than anything else. I hope it’s not a trend too. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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Ever since I have learnt counting I’ve had more Tetanus shots than I could count. Even though i was never into sports, I would trip and fall wherever I went. Ever since I was introduced to kitchen, knives and gas stove burns have been my constant companions. Once I began driving a scooter, i got a tetanus shot every 6 months (because this is the max time the last one is effective). Please note that I have never got a speeding ticket. I am a very careful driver. So, when I decided to learn to drive, I could only go as long as I was using the Driving School car. It had an extra break for the instructor. After that my father couldn’t risk it and he never let me lay my hands on his new car.
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As you suffer so many injuries, Shaly, I hope that you don’t get the reduced pain threshold that has started to happen to me. Then again, having children is probably the most painful thing a woman can experience, and I never had to go through that. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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Naah! I always had a low pain threshold. You can’t reduce it further. 😁
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Cuts, bumps, bites and graves, nothing bothers me more than a splinter, even worse if its from bit of swarf from a screw head, now thats a pain that can keep me awake at night.
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I’ve not had a splinter for a few years now. Fortunately, the last one was so big, I was able to pull it out of my hand using my teeth. 🙂
Cheers mate, Pete.
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Pins and needles. If you are wound up tight with stress or depression or illness, the little things become magnified. That is my take. I am just glad you are ok.
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Thanks, Cindy. I’m fine, just confused. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete. x
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perhaps you need to build up your tolerance for pain again.
As a kid, all the bumps and bruises may help us build up some kind of immunity. If we stop having so many bumps and bruises as we age, perhaps we lose that immunity.
So my suggestion is to go out there and get some more bug bites and bum into things more often. Before you know it, you won’t be screaming out anymore… 🙂
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Okay, Jim. I shall set about injuring myself forthwith! 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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I see my work is done here! 🙂
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🤣🤣🤣 some friend you have, Pete!
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I’m just trying to help him cut down on the screaming… 🙂
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We call horse flies clegs and their bit is very unpleasant. My mother was allergic to their bite. Once, we’d been picking wild raspberries and she was bitten on her ring finger which started to swell so fast her rings disappeared from view. In the car she fainted and I thought she’d died and became hysterical while dad drove as fast as he could to the doctor. Fortunately, I haven’t inherited her allergy.
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I have an allergy to wasp stings, which may partly be why the horsefly bite swelled so badly.
Best wishes, Pete.
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some rough days, Pete! hope all is well now. take care 🙂
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I’m fine thanks, Wilma. Just flummoxed as to why such small things were so painful! 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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We have a similar fly here….we call them deer flies….their bite is irritating but nothing like the egg size whelp…..wear a full face mask….sounds extreme but if it works…..is their a season for these flies? Be well and safe chuq
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Horsefly season is normally only during a hot summer in Beetley. They don’t have many horses to bother now, so have changed to me instead. A mask wouldn’t have helped, as it got the back of my head. 🙂 They are big, easily-seen flies, and they stick what looks like a tiny serrated-edge machete into you!
Best wishes, Pete.
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OUCH! Be careful chuq
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Go out with a helmet, next time. 🤣
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That could be a new job for me, Shaily. Selling anti-horsefly helmets! 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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Sometimes it depends on whether you’re distracted by anything else at the time as to the level of pain you feel. Pain is worse in the small hours when nothing else is going on. The skin becomes thinner as we get older, and maybe it doesn’t cushion us so much from knocks and bumps.
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My skin is definitely thinner, Stevie. At times it seems I can almost see through it! 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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Yep.
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Pain is strange. In my case, I think my tolerance for pain varies depending on the circumstances and how busy I am or how focused I might be on something else, but persistent pain is not something I am too good at managing, and I’m not sure age has helped me. I hope your pain threshold is not put to the test again any time soon, Pete. I see you’ve started a new serial. I must get my head into gear and catch up, but today I’m having a funny day already, so not much hope there. Keep safe.
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The new serial is very different. It’s ‘London lfe’ in communal living. You may well recognise some of the characters. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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I’m in agreement with “tolerance for pain varies depending on the circumstances and how busy I am or how focused I might be on something else,”….
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There’s been loads of studies on pain tolerance in ageing and they all say your tolerance for pain increases as you get older (which is why old people can sit on top of a fire just about and get ulcers in their legs- they don’t feel the heat pain). Maybe you are getting younger! 😊
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Yes, I remember old ladies not even realising they had fractured their hip! No idea why I am heading in the opposite direction…
Best wishes, Pete.
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Put it down to good luck, except for the pain part 🙂 Warmest regards, Theo
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Do I need to send you some cotton wool?
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I should buy some Germolene. That always worked when my Mum used it on me. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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Ouch! It’s my belief that pain thresholds are influenced by all kinds of things and at the moment we are all, to some extent at least, living with fear and anxiety. So that anything which threatens us seems greater than it actually is. I’ve found myself in tears over the tiniest things and I think it’s the same phenomenon
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Thanks, Sarada. that may well be the answer.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Well, horsefly bites are painful, Pete….
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True, but my reaction to it was over the top. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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Nah
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There’s no Richter scale for these things. We all react differently at different times
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I injure myself pretty often, and expect to bleed a little when rock scrambling, trimming palm trees, or just moving around sharp corners in the house with reckless abandon. I haven’t noticed any difference in my attitude towards pain, though. Maybe I just haven’t crossed the tolerance threshold yet?
I’m certainly not happy to hear that you are experiencing heightened sensitivity to pain, and don’t have any plausible answer as to why. I’ve often heard that older people bruise more easily, and, of course, that it takes longer to heal from an injury. Maybe pain, as experienced by older people, has something to do with a degradation in how the brain interprets the nerve signals it receives? Some kind of age-related cognitive impairment? Perhaps one of your readers is a doctor, and can enlighten you…
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I hope so, David. I would hate to think I am becoming an elderly cry-baby! 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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Sounds like you are moving towards flat cap territory. I can see you in a nice tweed one to keep the 🦟 away.
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I didn’t have my bug repellent on. Thought it was too early in the year. 🙂
Big change today. Cold and damp!
Cheers, Pete.
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Ooof, sounds like you’ve had a rough couple days – take it easy!
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Just very small things, that hurt much more than they should have. Strange!
Best wishes, Pete.
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