I have written a lot on this blog about how time seems to pass by much faster as you get older. Over the last eight years, each Wednesday seemed to appear two days earlier than I expected it to, and Christmas felt like it came around every three months.
Some individual days just fly by, even when I don’t have to go to work, and stick to a fairly regular routine. It often feels like I haven’t been up that long, and here I am at 6 pm starting to prepare dinner. I have to stand there and think back on what I have done. Blog posts, taking Ollie out for a couple of hours, maybe a drive into town, and a supermarket shop. I realise that it has actually been quite a long day, and I have been occupied for most of it.
But on the surface, it has felt like two hours, not ten.
Then it dawned on me today that it is still only just May. January seems a distant memory, as if it was two years ago, not five months. It has to be the unusual pressures of the coronavirus measures that have made 2020 seem like one of the slowest years I can remember since my childhood, but I have no real explanation as to why that has happened in my brain.
For the first time in a very long while, time has slowed down for me.
I rather like it like this.
Nice post, Pete.
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Thanks, Jennie. That was a long April. π
Best wishes, Pete.
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Yes, it was. π
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I know what you mean, Pete. I’m not sure it’s all down to age, though. When you’re used to working and having a routine, I think in our head we imagine that we’ll have all that spare time once we don’t have a regular job (even if we work shifts, there is some sort of regularity), and we always end up taking on a lot of things and being, sometimes, even busier than before, just with other activities. But yes, this year is going to be one of the weirdest ones most people have ever known. Keep safe and have a good week.
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Thanks, Olga. The last seven year just flew by. This one just feels ‘normal’, in respect of time passing. π
Best wishes, Pete.
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Since I built my green house things have slowed down, probably as I check everything growing in it on a daily basis. Normally I just chuck stuff in t’field and before I know it its ready to eat π
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I would have thought your self-sufficiency lifestyle would be more like living around seasons than years. Summer is busy, rather than a time for days out and holidays, with winter all about keeping warm and looking after animals. Makes me think of Brueghel paintings. π
Cheers, Pete.
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I might start saving up π
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I have the same feeling, Pete. Rationally, I know that time is not going faster or slowing down. I’ve only been retired for three years, but time does seem like it’s moving quicker. My wife, who retired when I did, has the same feeling. April was one of the longest months of my life because of the virus. Even though I don’t want time to feel like it’s going faster, I think that will be a good sign that life has returned to normal again.
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Yes indeed. When the months resume to passing in the blink of an eye, then we will undoubtedly feel safer. π
Best wishes, Pete.
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Time, I have noticed, is always at its slowest when I am waiting for something . . . Warmest regards, Theo
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Good point. In my case, waiting to see if I make it to 2021. π
Best wishes, Pete.
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I have the same experience. I do think that the virus is disrupting our internal clock.
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It has to be that, I agree. The whole of 2019 seemed to fly by in a few weeks. This year actually feels like a ‘year’.
Best wishes, Pete.
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I am in agreement with you, Pete. It feels like the time speed from my youth when I had hours on end to daydream or ride my bike or whatever. Every day is now the same for me as if I went back in time. I will watch an hour or so of evening entertainment and drink for a couple of hours and play cards or listen to music. I walk an hour or two a day. The rest of the time I am either cleaning, cooking or working on novel 3.
The only thing different is I’m not teaching at school! I imagine this is what retirement will be like. I can tell you I’m more relaxed and appreciate of the free time to create.
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That’s exactly why I love being retired! π
Best wishes, Pete. x
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Me too! One thing I am taking away from this experience is the way days can be slowed, and feel so full. So much time is usually spent getting to anywhere too. Happy Sunday Pete πΏ
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Thanks, TP. That makes three of us so far! π
Best wishes, Pete.
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it definitely got slower for me, Pete! i try to enjoy it! π
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Great to hear that, Wilma. Glad you are making the most of it. π
Best wishes, Pete.
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You are fortunate that time has slowed for you because it seems to be whizzing by me at an incalculable speed.
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It used to do that for me, John. It is only this year that it has slowed to a ‘childhood’ perception.
Best wishes, Pete.
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I remember childhood … vaguely.
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Time is certainly an interesting thing Pete…while it never changes, we each internalize it differently – and certainly at different times in our lives, don’t we?
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That is certainly true. This year has been a strange one for me, in many ways. But the ‘slow time’ thing is something new.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Good to have a slow down, though I still don’t seem to getting as much done each day as I would like!
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I managing very little, other than routine. Perhaps that’s why the time seems to be going slower? π
Best wishes, Pete.
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I feel like the year is running away from me and I haven’t done much at all. It’s already May, and soon half the year will be over.
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Strange how I seem to be the only one thinking of it as a slowdown year.
My birthday in March feels like a long time ago. π
Thanks, Stevie.
Best wishes, Pete.
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I wish it would slow down for me, Pete. I can’t believe we are already in May as January seems only a few weeks ago.
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I’m normally exactly the same, but this year seems to be dragging for once. That’s a good thing of course,. π
Best wishes, Pete.
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HiPete.Know how you feel. When you recall your first kisses, early birthdays, your earliest summer vacations, they seem to be in slow motion. I know when I look back on a childhood summer, it seems to have lasted forever; of course it didnβt. I think its when itβs the βfirstβ, there are so many things to remember. The memories of first time events are βdense,β
Not so with everyday life. Repetition, like going to work everyday doesnβt make dense memories. The first time you drive to a new job you are conscious of the time it takes. After you do it everyday for years you no longer take notice of the time.
And time flies for old people because we do less and less new things. We have fewer new experiences. We no longer make dense memories.
Time is going “slower” now because the virus is a first; its new. Thus dense memories. Enjoy!
Best from hibernation.
The days just slip away, one after another, and we wonder where the years went.
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Sound reasoning, Frank. Thanks for that. π
Best wishes, Pete.
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Summers in Las Vegas are eternal. The other seasons of the year are but brief moments in time.
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It would be very strange for me to experience a protracted period of hot weather. No doubt I might get used to it eventually. The closest so far was the famous ‘long summer’ of 1976, with record temperature in the UK for months on end. I found it affected my sleep, but of course we did not have A/C.
Best wishes, Pete.
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I donβt mind the slowing down. Like you, I rather enjoy it. I miss my family, though. I think itβs knowing it still is not safe to visit them that keeps me unsettled.
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That’s understandable, Maggie.
Best wishes, Pete.
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I like slow time too. Wish my work deadlines wouldn’t rush upon me though.
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At least I don’t have work to worry about anymore. π
Best wishes, Pete.
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Losing track of days has become frequent for me Pete.
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It is the way this year seems to have gone slowly that has started to fascinate me, Kim.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Us old farts have problem with time…..I for one am not sure what day it is….I read, I write and I rant….and time plays no role in that…..LOL chuq
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It has been going so fast for me over the last 6-7 years, this perceived slowdown came as quite a shock. π
Best wishes, Pete.
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I wait for my slow down…LOL chuq
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