Mum’s List (2016)
There have been many films made about a young parent dying from an incurable disease, and having to leave a spouse and children behind. Some are powerfully dramatic, others mawkishly sentimental. This British film is neither of those. It is simply excellent.
Based on the true story of a woman named Kate Greene, writer and director Niall Johnson has assembled a superb cast and dealt with the upsetting theme in a way that anyone can relate to. Diagnosed with incurable breast cancer that has spread to her bones, Kate realises that she will be leaving her childhood sweetheart and two young boys much earlier than she ever expected to. She compiles a list of things that they should always do, not only to remember her, but to stay together as a family and be able to move on with their lives after her death.
Emilia Fox is outstanding as Kate, ably supported by Rafe Spall (son of Timothy Spall) as the grief-stricken husband trying to come to terms with the devastating news. From the moment Kate receives the diagnosis, to the scenes showing the family doing the things from the list after her death, everything is completely believable, and delivered with in the most realistic and unsensational way possible. The supporting cast playing family, friends, and the two young sons are all up to the job too, leaving us with a picture of a family tragedy that also gives hope to those left behind.
This is a film that leaves you wrung-out emotionally, as you invest so heavily in the characters despite knowing the outcome, and that there will be no magic cure or good news at the end. Only the heardest-hearted viewers could fail to be deeply moved by the rollercoaster of emotions you feel watching this.
It is just a superb piece of film-making.
(British readers can see this on the BBC i-player. It was shown on BBC2)
Thank you for another great review, Pete! Seems worth to watch. I will put it on reminder for the vacancy time. Michael
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It is very sad, but worth watching for great acting.
Best wishes, Pete.
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I will look for it. I could use a good cry about something other than the state of the U.S.
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It is a tear-jerker, but a superior one.
(And a true story of course)
Best wishes, Pete.
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I will save this title Pete. It sounds very good.
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I loved it. But be warned, it is heart-wrenchingly sad.
Best wishes, Pete.
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So there’s a bucket list left behind for others by the lady who kicks the bucket?
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That’s the idea, David. But it avoids sentimentality to emerge as a powerful and memorable film.
Best wishes, Pete.
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It sounds good, but I’m not sure I could watch this.
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It is a hard watch, but made easier to bear by outstanding acting performances.
Best wishes, Pete.
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The trailer itself wrung my heart…
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Not often a film makes me shed a tear, Shaily, but this one did.
Best wishes, Pete.
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my kind of movie, Pete. i’ll look into it. thanks. 🙂
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It’s a real tear-jerker, Wilma. Have the Kleenex ready! 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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I will remember this title for when I am up for this sort of movie.
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It is a ‘full box of Kleenex’ watch, Jennie.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Good to know!
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I think we will not watch this, far too close to home, as Phil’s 1st wife died from this at age 40.
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In that case, I would avoid it. Julie wept through the whole film, and I cried too.
Nonetheless, it was an amazingly good film, with some hope at the end too.
Best wishes, pete.
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Ye gads I can’t be doing the crying thing!
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Me neither. Warmest regards, Ed
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You had best avoid this one then, Theo. That said, it is an exceedingly good film.
Best wishes, Pete.
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