*** Update! Just got another one! This it what the email looks like***
You’ve been invited to follow Social artist! |
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I recently posted about the sharp increase in being sent ‘Invitations to follow’. Those WordPress-generated emails that go something like this.
“Rudeblogger 123 has invited you to follow their blog”
Then there is a box marked ‘Accept Invitation’.
One day, the same person sent me one of those no less than four times.
I am not going to repeat eveything I wrote before about why I consider this to be rude. I will just add this, for the attention of anyone considering using this feature to send me a request.
I WILL NOT FOLLOW ANYONE WHO SENDS ME ONE OF THESE, EVER.
I hope I have made it clear now?
I haven’t received any invitations, except those originating from Facebook. Oh, woe is me!
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You can live without them, David. They are potential spammers anyway.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Good decision, Pete! I hope they will understand, but it seems to be “only” artificial intelligence. Best wishes, MIchael
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I’m not sure where it comes from, but I never click on them.
Best ishes, Pete.
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Thank you for the warning Pete. Very appreciated.
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I find these offensive, too. And people actually say yes to their invitation?
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I don’t know anyone who accepts them, but I presume some people find them flattering, Jennie.
Best wishes, Pete.
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I was 12 days behind in reading and finally caught up!-no small feat! I must have missed this -and sure hope this is not a trend. As a sidenote, I worked on a simple post yesterday with the new editor-it was awful, and I sure hope practice does make perfect. After all that, the thing will not publish!! I will keep on though. The thing robbed me of the joy and peace, that writing gives me. Nothing is even remotely the same. What a shame!
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I am so sorry to hear about that, Michele. I am sure that many others feel the same about this new editor.
Best wishes, Pete.
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have you tried it yet? I had to google so many things as I wrote-what a terrible way to write!!
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No. I use
>Admin Dashboard Page
Left menu
>Posts
>Add new
That’s the only way I have ever written and edited a post, Michele. x
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Good for you-but I am not trying anything else for a while-I hope!! I did read that is the best place to post from. When my slow brain, recovers, I will look into that.
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We all have our pet peeves, Pete. One of mine it the blogger who randomly likes our post without ever reading it. There is no way of necessarily knowing, but when they “like” five separate posts in the same minute, what is one to think? I have the world’s fastest speed reader on my blog, or this person doesn’t even bother trying to fake it. 🤣
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Yes, ‘Lightning Likers’, who just like posts as they come up on The Reader. I have had my share of those too.
Best wishes, Pete.
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It may not always be obvious, but I’ve never commented on a post I haven’t read. For example, I read every bit of the Charles Dickens post to which Pete offered a link. But my comment may not have made that obvious.
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I don’t get them, you’re just such a popular blogger everyone wants you to be their pal 😀
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Ha! I see Kim is getting them too.
Best wishes, Pete.
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I got three of these in the last 48 hours.😡
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Me too. Two from the same person! Annoying!
Best wishes, Pete.
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Got it! 🙂 Warmest regards, Theo
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Thanks Theo. I have to let off steam occasionally. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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Don’t we all? Warmest regards, Theo
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I agree with you, Pete, on that issue – totally. But I don’t think a post like this will help. These … people wont’ read it at all or simply disregard it. Or maybe they even use a bot? So our only way is to simply delete that message.
Have a great weekend,
Pit
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They almost certainly don’t read it, Pit. This was evidenced by my receiving yet another one this afternoon. But it makes me feel better to get the complaint off my chest. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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Now THAT is a feeling I certainly know. It helps me, too!
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Pete, I have NEVER gotten one of those! Why do I feel like there’s a great party I’m not invited to?
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It might only work with other WP sites, John. Yours is self hosted, I believe? Mine is now a .com, but only because I pay WP for the privilege. It is not my own unique domain.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Got it…I’m a professional account on WordPress, not self-hosted. I don’t have ads added to mine as a result, and can post and store all the pics and videos I want…I’ve been posting for more than 5 years and haven’t used 2% of my capacity yet!
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Do you also have to use the block editor, John?
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I agree with you Pete.
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Thanks, Arlene. I don’t understand why people think it’s okay to do that.
Best wishes, Pete.
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My but you’re in a right grump today sir! 🤣
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First more ‘Invitations’, then the bloody block editor! Guaranteed to set me off!
Out with Ollie soon for some peace and quiet in the countryside. See if that helps. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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Sadly, I doubt they will read your instruction
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I know, but it makes me feel better to gripe!
Best wishes, Pete.
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Indeed!
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I’m confused… I don’t get anything like these, just hundreds of emails telling me someone just liked us!
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It is in the admin page menu system.
‘Users’ >
‘Invite New’
It has been around since I started blogging in 2012, and I get a few every week.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Rather glad I didn’t know about that one!
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You can opt out of those ‘Likes’ emails, I have.
Go to your admin page, and select ‘Settings’
Then select ‘Discussion’
Scroll down to ‘Likes notifications’ and untick the box next to
‘Email me whenever someone likes one of my posts’.
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I forgot about this! Thanks for reminding me, Pete!
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It sounds like a strnage feature for WP to enable.
I have never gotten such an ‘invite’, though I do get a lot of bot comments that make no sense.
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If you click on ‘Users’ in your admin dashboard, it offers ‘Invite New’. Then WP will generate an email that is sent to the blogger you have invited. I find it impersonal, and it can also be annoying when they continue to send the same invitation.
Best wishes, Pete.
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I ignore them and they keep on coming……bots are a pain in the butt. chuq
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I doubt this will do any good, but it makes me feel better to complain. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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I know….I feel the same….I bitch about the ignorance of our politics and no one listens…..but makes me feel better as well LOL chuq
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These are phishing sites, Pete – put them straight into your spam files, then delete them about one hour later, to give the email spam algorithm time to record them as spam.
DO NOT CLICK THEIR ACCEPT BUTTON… doing so confirms your address is active and will lead to more issues.
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Thanks, Chris. I have never clicked on one yet and have no intention of doing so.
Best wishes, Pete.
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I agree Pete, definitely got a few of those myself as well, and always delete them. When I want to follow someone, I will do it myself, not the other way around😊
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Exactly right, Michel.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Bang to rights, I always delete them
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I agree. Invitations are usually when blogs are private and only those invited can join/follow. When your blog is open to the public, it takes less energy to simply comment and ask if you will visit. That respects that after your visit, YOU decide whether or not to follow.
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Thanks, Xena. I find those invitations to be impersonal, and quite rude. They do not seem to me to be in the spirit of community blogging.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Yes. When I get those invitations from folks I don’t know, I delete the email very quickly.
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