Today is Mother’s Day in Britain. I send my greetings to all mums, including my wife who must endure a lockdown day, seeing none of her four children.
In the photo above, my mum is celebrating her 70th birthday. She died in 2012, aged 87. Four days before Mother’s Day that year.
I never missed celebrating that day for her, buying a large card with lots of additonal pages, and a Lindt Easter Egg that she looked forward to every year.
She was a great mum, and worried about me even when she was desperately ill.
Born in 1924, she lived in London throughout WW2. Terrified by the bombing during The Blitz, but still going to work every day. In fact she worked until she was 75 years old, enjoying the company more than she needed the additional income. She loved her family, and she loved all animals, especially her beloved pet dogs and cats.
Not a day goes by when I do not think about her, and miss her.
Violet Johnson. 9th of July, 1924 – 14th of March, 2012. Rest in peace, my beloved mum.
She must really proud of you pete
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I think she always was.
Best wishes, Pete.
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This is lovely Pete, what a wonderful mother you had! 💕C
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She was. A hard worker, and loved by everyone. My dad left her in 1975, and she devoted the rest of her life to her family, and her many pets.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Lovely tribute, Pete.
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Thank you, Jennie. She certainly deserved it.,
Best wishes, Pete.
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What a beautiful smile your mum has it reached her eyes which sparkle with laughter…A lovely tribute, Pete I am sure your mum is looking over you 🙂 x
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Thanks, Carol. She was ‘old school’, and tried to stay smiling through everything. That night of her 70th birthday, she was particularly happy to be out celebrating with family.
Best wishes, Pete.
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You have some wonderful memories, Pete x
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Great post 🙂 Your mother must have been a wonderful human being based on the way you describe her 🙂 Since you mention that she loved animals, did she ever get to know your dog Ollie? 🙂 Anyway, keep up the great work as always 🙂
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Sadly, she died before we got Ollie. That was a shame, because she would so loved to have seen him.
Best wishes, Pete.
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What a lovely tribute. Happy (belated) Mother‘s Day to you and your mom. As well as to your wife!
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Thank you, Themis. I usually post a memory of my mum on her birthday, as well as Mother’s Day.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Sweet memories, Pete. It’s interesting to talk to people who lived through a major world event. Maybe someday, someone will pick our brains about the coronavirus.
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Future historians now have the luxury of tens of millions of blogs to use for research and information. Imagine if most people involved in WW2 had been able to blog about it! 🙂
I was born seven years after the war ended, and as I grew up, it was all anyone around me ever talked about then.
Best wishes, Pete.
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A great remembrance, Pete! One can see on the photo the wonderful person she was. Michael
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Thanks, Michael. She loved to be around her family, and that night we were all celbrating her 70th birthday.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Sounds great, Pete! May she have a look down, much more often. I am sure she is a little bit wondering about your staying far away from London. 😉 Michael
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She did know we were moving, before she died. She thought it was a good idea. 🙂
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A very great woman!
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What a beautiful remembrance of your mom, Pete.
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Thanks, Susanne. Mother’s Day this year was the same date she died in 2012, so it was doubly hard.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Whether true or not – love the picture you posted – she looks like ‘my kind of gal’ as in one I would enjoy spending time with – thus, I mourn with you that she is gone, long before I ever met you, let alone her – 😀
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Need to clarify, “whether she is my kind of gal and that would have been true or not” – I don’t doubt the picture you posted is true – sigh – stream of thinking writing in comments doesn’t serve as well as first draft writing endeavors – does it – ? LOL
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She loved animals, family, making cakes, and looking after people who were older. I think she was everyone’s kind of girl, TamrahJo. I never met anyone who didn’t like her, or heard a bad word said about her.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Sounds as if you are right on her being ‘everyone’s kind of girl’ for who doesn’t, on one hand or another, care for animals, family, the elderly or like eating cake? 😀
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March 14th has twice the impact then. Keep remembering, Warmest regards, Theo
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Yes, Mother’s Day this year fell on the date of her death. That made it feel harder, somehow.
Best wishes, Pete.
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What I love most in this photo is that you can see that your mom smiled with her whole self, not just her mouth. Her joy in life really comes through.
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Thanks, Elizabeth. She always loved to be out with family, and that night she was especially happy to be celebrating her 70th.
Best wishes, Pete.
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When it comes to love, Mum’s the word.
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Never a truer pun written, David.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Beautiful tribute Pete…
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Thanks, John. The 14th of March is also the date she died.
Best wishes, Pete.
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beautiful tribute to a beautiful woman, Pete. cheers to your Mum and all the mums in Britain. 🙂
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Thanks, Wilma. And to you of course! 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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She was a beautiful lady, Pete…but you know that already, of course. I love the way her face sparkles with mischief. Lovely.
–Pam
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Thanks, Pam. She often had a twinkle in her eye, that’s for sure. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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A lovely tribute, Pete
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Thanks, Sue. Doubly poignant today, as she died on the 14th of March.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Oh, indeed
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May the memories keep her living for a good while yet 🙂
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I’m sure they will mate.
Best wishes, Pete.
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She looks lovely, Pete!
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She loved being out with the family, Marina. And even at 70, she was still working most days of the week.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Great Mother.. RIP towards Her
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Thank you very much, Siva.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Another wonderful tribute to your lovely Mum Pete.
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Thanks, Kim. I try to do these on her birthday, and on Mother’s Day. More poignant this year of course, as she died on the 14th of March.
Best wishes, Pete.
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I always think of my mum and my mother-in-law on Mother’s Day. They were such different characters and died about fourteen years ago but I still pass Mum’s house quite often as we moved here to be near her when Dad died.Mum-in law was a publican but Mum was a housewife. They were both great examples of unselfish love and loyalty and I thank them for teaching us all about the importance of family.
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Lovely to hear your own story on this day, Julie.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Happy Mother’s Day to all!!
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Thanks, GP. Mums are great! 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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I hope everyone believes that while they still have them!
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Our first Mothering Sunday since my mother died. Even though Mother’s Day is a different date in Australia, I always sent her a card at this time, searching for one that actually said ‘Mothering Sunday, the proper Christian version. One of my earliest memories is we children all going up to the front of the church to be given a humble bunch of violets to take back to our mothers in the pews – no commercialism then.
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That sounds like a nice tradition, Janet.
My family was never religious, and my mum did so love chocolate. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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Yes, my Mum would have loved a box of Black Magic, but I don’t recall she ever had chocolate on Mothering Sunday!
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I always appreciate your lovely tributes to your mum, Pete. She has such an infectious smile in this photo. I know you must miss her a lot.
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Thanks, Maggie. Indeed I do.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Lovely tribute, Pete. She has similarities to my own mum. Maybe they only lived a few miles apart, lol.
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Just across the river really. She lived in Bermondsey until she was 43.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Mum lived in Poplar until she was 47, then lived in Kidbrooke until she was 70, then with much reluctance made the move to Suffolk, which she hated with a passion.
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My mum moved around a bit over the years, but she ended her days in Peckham, living at Nunhead Green. She liked it there.
When we were buying the house in Norfolk, she refused to come and live with us. She died the same month I was due to move here.
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I always love your tribute to your Mum….well done chuq
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Thanks, chuq. I like to do this on her birthday, and Mother’s Day.
Best wishes, Pete.
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I enjoy them all….a good son you are (why am I talking like Yoda?)….chuq
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Probably because I look a lot like Yoda. 🙂
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LOL that has got to be it…..be well chuq
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here’s to your mum and all the lovely mums out there. a lovely tribute to her. we celebrate it here in may
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Thank you, Beth. I know it is different days all around the world, which has always seemed strange to me. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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I agree
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Aw, lovely tribute Pete.
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Thanks, FR. I like to mark her birthday, and Mother’s Day. But of course I think about her every day.
Best wishes, Pete.
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You had a great mother. What a lovely tribute. I still have my dear mother, but not for long as she is 92 and failing.
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Sorry to hear that your mum is failing. Even now, 92 is a grand age.
Best wishes, Pete.
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