Today, my wife has gone out to take her daughters and grandchildren to a petting farm near the town of Downham Market. She left early, and probably won’t be home until after dark.
With my driving licence still in dispute, I am feeling stuck.
It is a lovely sunny day in Beetley, set to reach 16C later. If I was allowed to drive, I could go somewhere else though. Take Ollie to North Elmham or Neatherd Moor for a change of scene, then maybe pop into town to get fresh bread and something from the shops.
Of course, I could walk. But Ollie has arthritis now, and cannot walk as far as he used to. Even walking into town would take 90 minutes each way to Neatherd Moor and a walk to North Elmham Woods would be over an hour each way, walking on fast roads. Ollie is terrified of walking close to traffic.
So I feel stuck. Beetley is a nice enough place to be stuck in, but I know every inch of the village and its surroundings by now.
The irony is that if I was able to drive, I might not choose to go anywhere.
But having that choice is what is important.
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Yes, it’s having the choice. You wouldn’t have felt as stuck, even if you didn’t have a car that day, if you had a license. You must be ready to stand on someone’s desk at the license bureau.
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Unfortunately, that bureau is in Swansea, Wales. It is 320 miles west of Beetley, and does not admit the public.
Best wishes, Pete.
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I see! Best to you, Pete.
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Oh, this could also become our future, here in Germany. But actually the digitization of our state has not started yet. 😉 I would appreciate first uploading the brains of the politicans to a cloud. Lol xx Michael
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It is a bureaucratic nightmare, Michael.
Best wishes, Pete.
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I hope it all gets cleared out soon. I don’t have a car here (I wouldn’t use it much, and public transport is good), but I miss driving sometimes, although here it would be more of an inconvenience than anything. I can’t imagine being without it in the town where I was living in the UK. Fingers crossed, Pete.
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Thanks, Olga. I have an update to post soon, and it’s not good news yet.
Best wishes, Pete.
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There is the irony. It makes choice all the more important. Fingers crossed you get your license. Best to you, Pete.
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Thanks, Jennie. The waiting is so frustrating.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Indeed. Best to you, Pete.
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Life is definitely all about having that choice …I hope you hear about your licence soon, Pete 🙂 x
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Thanks, Carol. It is really annoying me.
Best wishes, Pete. x
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I’m sure it is Pete I thought they were more or less full automated now x
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I can imagine if the car were parked in the driveway, you wouldn’t venture out. As you say, it’s the taking away the option that stings. I’d feel the same way if I were in your shoes.
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Thanks, Cindy. Life is always about options, and I have had one of my very important options taken away.
Best wishes, Pete. x
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I would hate it.
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Hi Pete, I think most people can relate to this feeling now after two years of lockdowns and pandemic. It feels a little surreal when I think back over this time, as if it was all a dream.
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I was awakened from that dream by not being allowed to drive, Robbie. For the first time in 53 years, I am reliant on others to be able to go anywhere. I don’t like that feeling.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Very frustrating not to have your driving freedom.
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I understand your dismay. it’s the knowing that you don’t have the option, not that you would have gone somewhere for sure.
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Exactly that, Beth. Simple choice.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Pete, it seems that Ollie might have more legal status to drive than you. But you bring up an interesting point that we all take for granted – our freedom. Yes my car is sitting in the driveway right now. It most likely will stay there all day unused. But I have a choice. I share the frustration with you. I will not ask where your nearest pub is.
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The nearest pub is two miles away, in Gressenhall. It is walkable, but to be honest I’m not much of a ‘pub person’. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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Feel for you Pete, I’m now living out of town (will send you some photos) and I’ve often thought of what I would do if I lost my licence, not even a bus service here.
Any way could you get a bus or taxi, keep receipt and present for reimbursement as it’s their fault for the delay.
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I can imagine how hard it would be to get the DVLA to consider responsibility for my out-of-pocket expenses, Bobby! I wouldn’t live long enough for that to get to court. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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I know exactly what you mean. With my vehicle disabled due to back order of breaks, my wife had two days teaching in town and I was stuck here in the country. Warmest regards, Theo
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I missed out on my short weekend wander in town. If this continues, I may become the Beetley hermit! 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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Whoa! Do I ever know that feeling.
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We are so often on the same page, GP!
Best wishes, Pete.
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I am trying to imagine our lives without a car but we are lucky. We have a bus every hour and a supermarket ten minutes walk away. Our new little dog doesn’t like walks! He hates the traffic and rushes to get home. As we don’t feel able to go too far that suits us, but it is most peculiar. Just enjoy being out. It doesn’t matter if it is familiar. I’m sure you wil see something different every time. Round here it is magnolia trees.Best Wishes.
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Thanks, Julie. Ollie doesn’t like busy roads with lots of traffic either. I walk him where we can keep away from those.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Are you waiting for a medical condition to be assessed? As far as I can tell you can drive legally if your application is with the DVLA unless you have a medical issue.
“Providing that you have applied for a new driving licence and you meet the criteria of DVLA Section 88, your car insurance will still cover you for driving in the UK. You do not need to inform your insurer of this, as you are driving legally.”
Does your doctor agree that you are fit to drive?
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My Eye doctor is happy for me to drive. But the DVLA has shown me as ‘Licence Expired’. I checked with where I worked in the Police, and ‘Licence Expired’ legally means I am uninsured, and committing at least two driving offences. That is what I come up as on the Poilce National Computer check. The DVLA are just citing ‘delays in processing’, and will not investigate my case until 10 weeks have gone by, which is April the 19th.
I’m not willing to take the chance that something might happen before then, and my insurers will deny liability.
Best wishes, Pete. x
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Mixed information then. Better safe than sorry. Though I would struggle with no licence. Might be a good time to start looking for a house in a town!
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You think they’d automatically extend the licenses for 3 months or so, until they fixed their own backlog, rather than leave an entire population in the lurch! Who knows how many people have no other means of transportation? It’s crazy. In the meantime, at least you have Ollie’s company.
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They do say you can drive until you get the new licence. But then they go and show me as ‘Licence Expired’ on the official computer, which means that my car insurance is invalid, and I can be stopped by the Police. Catch 22!
Best wishes, Pete.
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Arghhhh!
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(1) 18° C at this very moment in Las Vegas, with a predicted high this afternoon of 33° C.
(2) I can drive somewhere today, of course, but the price of gasoline is skyrocketing. Nevertheless, I’ll be itching to go on a hike in a day or two.
(3) Give Ollie a doggy biscuit for me, and have yourself a Belgian Bun.
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Thanks, David. If I could drive to a shop, I might well have bought a Belgian Bun.
Best wishes, Pete.
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I’m sorry you are suffering at the hands of the bureaucracy Pete.
My 2 cents? It is not by accident that you don’t have your freedom at this juncture. What the hell? This is a process (renewing a driving privilege) that has been in motion for years and and years, then ‘suddenly’, they can’t get you your “Papers”? Again, What the hell?
“Because of COVID”? Please. . . , that is the most blatant Bull-Sh*t excuse on the planet at this point and God help you that they aren’t using it here. Fact is you’ve lost your freedom, the ‘machine’ doesn’t care, and in all likelihood is actually doing this to you and countless other seniors on purpose. Time to join in on the rage against the Machine I think, before it’s too late. Are there class action law suits in Blighty??? Seems appropriate at this point.
Chagrined,
CT
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There have been class action suits, but rarely successful against the government. I am aware by now that hundreds of people all over the UK are in the same situation. The DVLA is making the feeble excuse that they ‘didn’t expect so many 70 year-olds to want to renew their licence’.
That’s ridiculous.
Best wishes, Pete.
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What a lame, hollow, and disingenuous response Pete. Shaking my disbelieving head. . .
CT
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It always takes losing something to realize how much you should appreciate it. Very frustrating for you though.
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Ever since moving to Norfolk, I have really appreciated being able to drive. It was no so important in London, but not having access to my car in a small country village is of no use to me, Carolyn.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Fingers xt it comes through soon, before you go stir crazy!
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I have to be honest and tell you it is really getting to me now. And it has only been ten days! 😦
Best wishes, Pete.
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How long ago did you apply for it?
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First week in Feb. They won’t even accept to deal my enquiry until the 19th of April, as they say it ‘takes up to ten weeks to process’.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Blimey, how hard can it be?
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It really is scandalous. It was mentioned on ‘Question Time’ this week too. It is affecting thousands of 70 year-olds in Britain this year.
Best wishes, Pete.
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I hate being stuck at home. Freedom is important.
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It is indeed, Molly. Walking is an option, but one can only walk so far of course.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Yes, you’re right. We have two cars at the moment, but when we retire we plan to downgrade to one. I’ve been at home when my car’s in for repair and Sam’s out, and so I know what you mean.
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It has only been 10 days, but after a lifetime of driving, it makes me feel lost.
Best wishes, Pete.
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I would feel trapped, but as long as my car is in the garage I don’t. As you say, you don’t need to go anywhere, but if your car is there then you know you can go somewhere if you want to.
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I know what you mean about choice. When it’s taken away, we really feel the lack.
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It came as a shock, Liz. I was expecting the online licence renewal to be easy. Silly me.
Best wishes, Pete.
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🙂
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This must be so annoying. Glad you have Ollie to keep you company.
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He is always by my side, Darlene.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Yes, it’s all about choice….but I’ve had to get used to that for a year
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I appreciate it must be much harder for you, Sue.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Stuff happens
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Sunny here too Pete. 😉
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At least the weather keeps me cheerful, Jack. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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Pete I had not read your earlier posts so did not know about your driving licence issue, i truly know that feeling as you know. I am going to get hubby to look through your posts to see what has happened I am so sorry xx
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Thanks, Lorraine. I appreciate your help.
Best wishes, Pete. x
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I am sorry it has come to this, we had the same situation so can relate xx
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At least you guys can go for your usual walk…..but not having a choice does suck…..chuq
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10 days with no licence feels like months, chuq.
Best wishes, Pete.
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I bet….I would be stir crazy chuq
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Looks like “man cave day” for you and Ollie! All kidding aside, I agree that choice IS what matters.
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Thanks, Annette. I will take Ollie out locally later, make the most of the good weather.
Best wishes, Pete. x
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