As a diversion from reblogging things found in the depths of my archive, here is some music, together with a memory of a wonderful friend.
I met Billy O’Neill when he joined the London Ambulance Service. A former Catholic Monk, he later became lead guitarist in a touring band. Then he settled down into a quiet life as a librarian in Camden, before deciding to become an EMT. He was a gentle giant of a man, standing over six feet six tall, and wearing size thirteen shoes.
For some years he worked with me as my regular ambulance crewmate and we became great friends, with a shared love of music. When I moved to Camden in 2000, we lived within sight of each other. He went on to better things in that job, first becoming a Training Instructor, then progressing to the second highest role in the London Ambulance Service. He moved to Oxfordshire, married his partner Ian, and I was proud to be a witness at their civil ceremony. Later on, he was a witness when I married Julie, and Ian made the wedding video for us. On my last ever shift as an EMT, he came to work with me for those final eight hours.
Billy was taken from this world far too soon, devastated by bone cancer. I miss him every day, and always will.
This is one of our favourite songs, and it was always played whenever we socialised.
A terrific remembrance and tribute to Billy. Gee, I wish I had met him.
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You would have loved him, Jennie. A gentle giant, and so talented artistically.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Sorry to hear of your friend’s death. You wrote a lovely tribute to him. On another tack, I own all BeBop Deluxe’s albums and often went to see them play at Hammersmith Odeon. Back in 1976 a friend and I went youth hostelling to Wakefield where he was born and spent one afternoon looking for his granny’s house.
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Bill Nelson is still around, Stevie. Not sure if he is working or performing though.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Probably a bit long in the tooth now…
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He’s 73. I think the Rolling Stones are older. 🙂
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I had a crush on him as a teenager.
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Understandable. He was a good-looking guy, and also very ‘cool’. 🙂
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We saw him at The Stables in Milton Keynes around 18 – 20 years ago. He wore a hat because he was shy about losing his hair. He could still play guitar though!
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A nice tribute, Pete! I am so sorry for his passing away. But he will be remembered always through his music too. Best wishes, Michael
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Thanks, Michael. He was truly unforgettable.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Sorry to hear of Bob’s passing, Pete. He sounds like a great man.
Best Regards,
Chris Tabone
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It was a few years ago now, Chris, but it feels like yesterday.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Nice tribute to your friend, Pete. He sounds like someone I would have liked to meet.
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I am sure you would have, Don. A gifted musician, talented painter, and a real philosopher. I never met anyone else like him.
Best wishes, Pete.
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I especially loved his series of vocations. Monk to musician to EMT to librarian. His life seemed to go between quiet and noise. He sounds like a great friend and a true loss.
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Billy was one of the most talented and genuine people I have ever met, Elizabeth. His loss was a real tragedy to everyone who knew him.
Best wishes, Pete.
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I wish more people could be genuine. It is so refreshing to find them.
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I remember Bill well, great guy, I was his instructor when he joined LAS, there were many I was involved with but a few always stand out Bill was one of the 4 trainees I will always remember, a proper gentleman. Ahhhhh be bop delux what memories
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Very true, Bobby. Bill was so talented and intelligent too. Musician, artist, and a great cook and baker.
Cheers, Pete.
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Great memories…
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Thanks, June. Great friends leave behind a legacy of cherished memories.
Best wishes, Pete.
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While the band never really broke big in the US, I own their double live album “Live In The Air Age”! still have it today!
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They were not that big over here, John. ‘Ships In The Night’ was their biggest hit, I believe.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Yet it still remains one of the 200+ albums I have lugged through life! Hope your week is off to a good start Pete!
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Raining and quite cold, (12C) but I am keeping cheerful! 🙂
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My sister in Seattle has rain as well…sorry Pete!
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Seattle is well known for rain of course. 🙂
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A fine hard rockin’ tribute to a former Catholic Monk and quiet Librarian. Somewhere in heaven, Billy O’Neill is strummin’ and smilin’.
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He was a spiritual person, David. And if he can get his hands on a heavenly Gretsch, he will be eternally happy.
Best wishes, Pete.
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That sort of friendship is very special. He would be touched, I am sure to know how fondly you remember him.
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I’m sure he knows, Carolyn. His early death was a great shock to all of us.
Best wishes, Pete.
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A lovely tribute to your friend, Pete..great song one I haven’t heard before 🙂 x
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Their biggest hit at the time was ‘Ships In The Night’, Carol. But they were never really ‘big time’.
Best wishes, Pete. x
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Thank you for the link, Pete..I will certainly listen to it 🙂 x
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Great song, and a beautifully written tribute to friendship.
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Thanks very much, dear Pippa.
Best wishes, Pete. xx
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Always sad to lose good friends, Pete
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I seem to have lost too many over the years, Sue. It is the funeral of another one tomorrow, but as it is in Dorset, I will be watching it online.
Best wishes, Pete.
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It becomes more prevalent as we ourselves age…
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A wonderful memory and share.
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Thanks, Peggy. Quite a few songs remind me of my good friend, but this was always the ‘go-to’ song for us.
Best wishes, Pete.
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One of my favourite bands from that era too, Pete; coincidentally, one of their songs was on a recent edition of Guy Garvey’s excellent programmes on Sky Arts, when he trawls the ITV archives for lost gems & early performances from acts which went on to be famous; or, occasionally, short-lived! It’s well worth checking out, if you don’t already know it. Cheers, Jon.
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Thanks for the tip, Jon.
Best wishes, Pete.
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how hard to lose someone you are close to, glad this song reminds you of your time spent together
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Thanks, Beth. It is such a short song, but so talented instrumentally.
Best wishes, Pete.
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So sad to lose such a good friend. Fab song to remember him by.
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Thanks, FR. One of my favourite guitarists too, Bill Nelson.
Best wishes, Pete.
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That song, I know the bass player Charlie Tumahai. He came back to NZ, played in a band called Herbs and helped maori youth offenders in Court, where he died suddenly, about 30 years ago.
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Thanks for adding that information, Gavin. The guitarist Bill Nelson is still alive, aged 73.
Best wishes, Pete.
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