There used to be a local man walking a small Lurcher. The dog is named Stanley, and he is very friendly. Recently, I saw Stanley with a lady, and it turned out to be the wife of the man I used to see regularly.
She told me the sad news that her husband has been stricken with Alzheimer’s, and will have to live in a care home. She is going to be busy arranging all that, then visiting him when she can.
I offered to help out by taking Stanley for a walk with Ollie when she was unable to take him herself.
Yesterday, we arranged that first walk. Stanley was pleased to see us at the house, but a little reluctant to walk off with us at first. Once we got to the path leading to Beetley Meadows, his tail came up, and he trotted along happily. He is younger than Ollie, with lots more energy, so it felt a little strange for me to be having to keep up with a dog, instead of waiting for one to catch me up.
After completing the usual walk, I headed back in the direction of his house, two streets away. He picked up the pace and pulled on his lead, knowing he was heading home.
Next week, I will take him out again. It is company for Ollie, and helps out the lady.
It is also what living in a small village community is all about.
That’s very kind of you, Pete! Ollie also will be pleased, as he now has a companion of his kind. Let’s hear about the beginning of Ollie’s teaching qualities. I am sure this will happen soon, and he will tell the lurcher how to chase anything. 😉 xx Michael
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Unfortunately, I have not been able to contact the lady since. I will try again soon.
Best wishes, Pete.
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You are so thoughtful and kind Pete. Alzheimers is such a horrible disease, I’m sure your neighbor appreciates your help with everything else she has to manage. Hugs, C
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She hasn’t been around to answer the phone lately, so it is becoming difficult to arrange Stanley’s walks.
But I will persevere. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete. x
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Too many people stop with “is there anything I can do?” This puts pressure on someone who is already overwhelmed. I love that you knew what you could offer and that it met a genuine need of a neighbor. Here we promised our late neighbor that we would always look after the snow removal for his widow. Going on 9 years my husband does each winter. Our street understands neighborliness too.
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Thanks, Elizabeth. I would never presume to interfere in her family life, so walking the dog is the best option for her situation.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Well done.
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It is good the two dogs get along. Thank you. Warmest regards, Ed
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It is. Otherwise I would have had to make two separate trips. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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That’s so kind of you, Pete I’m sure it is appreciated by the owner..my mother has Alzheimer’s and its a terrible disease xx
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It is indeed. My grandmother and my first mother-in-law had the same issues, so I know what it’s like to have to deal with that.
Best wishes, Pete. x
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That’s so nice, Pete.
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I try to be a good neighbour, Jennie.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Of course you do! Best to you, Pete.
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Alzheimer’s is such a terrible disease. So kind of you to help out your neighbor.
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Thanks, Susanne. It seems I am not needed as much as I thought just yet, but I am happy to help when I can.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Peted, what an act of kindness-you are just always, thinking of others-a rare trait these days, especially. I am loving the serial- x Michele
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Thanks for your kind words, dear Michele.
Best wishes, Pete. x
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It’s really nice of you to help each other. And Ollie’s gets the company, so that’s a bonus 😊
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Ollie always enjoys canine company, Shaily.
Best wishes, Pete.
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What a good thing you’re doing, Pete!
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I think we have to stick together in a small village, Liz. Our pets are one way that we meet other people, and if we can help them, we do that.
Best wishes, Pete.
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I know what you mean. I grew up in several small villages.
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I’ll bet Stan and Ollie make for a great canine comedy team!
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Annette mentioned the Laurel and Hardy connection lower down. I hadn’t even thought of that, David. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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I’m sure Ollie would have enjoyed having Stanley along for the walk, nice one Pete
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He enjoys having the company of another dog, Bobby.
Best wishes, Pete.
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That describes the world I was brought up on but it changed then .. sounds like its coming back
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You would only find this in small communities, Gavin. I never experienced anything like this in London.
Best wishes, Pete.
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How kind of you to walk Stanley. Our neighbourhood is the same, everyone looks out for each other.
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Glad to hear that, Darlene.
Best wishes, Pete.
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It was kind of you to do that for her. I am sure the poor woman is facing a mountain of issues.
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She is indeed, Molly, and she is not a young lady. Luckily, she has a daughter quite near where her husband will be residing, so will have an occasional break from visiting.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Thanks for sharing this Pete…it’s exactly the sort of “good neighbor” lifestyle that is sadly missing in far too many communities…
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I doubt this could ever happen in London, John. Part of the pleasure of living in a village in the countryside. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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Such a nice gesture! 🙂 And everybody benefits.
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Exactly that. And it is no hardship for me to walk two dogs instead of one. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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The best thing to do is often the clearest, too. It just takes that moment of asking.. Poor woman, poor Stanley; Alzheimer’s and dementia have many victims. I hope that Pete, Ollie and Stanley have a great time together! Stanley needs you, we all need you. My tail is wagging.
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Thank you, dear Pippa. The lady and I have to work out convenient periods when she will be at home at my usual dog-walking time. It looks like Monday might be suitable for Stanley’s next walk with Ollie.
Best wishes, Pete. x
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Sorry to hear about your friend….and you are an excellent neighbor for helping….well done my friend. chuq
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I didn’t know him that well, only from dog-walking. But he lived close by, so it seemed to be the decent thing to do, to help out his wife.
Best wishes, Pete.
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It was and you are a nice guy. chuq
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It’s the seemingly small things that help people who find themselves in this situation and pets often lose out at such times, so this is a very thoughtful act.
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Thanks, Carolyn. Where pets are concerned, most people around here are happy to help.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Awww such a nice thing to do Pete. Shows what a kind man you are 😁
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Thanks, Christina. Most of us in Beetley try to help each other out when we can.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Aren’t you a good neighbor, Pete. There should be more people like you!
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There are a lot of helpful people around here, GP. (And a few who keep themselves to themselves of course.)
Best wishes, Pete.
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Well done. It’s funny how dogs speed up when you turn for home, isn’t it? I don’t think Biscuit likes leaving the house at all. He doesn’t bother if we leave him at home – doesn’t even rush to greet us when we return but if you let him off the lead a few yards from the house he races home. He will walk to heel to the shops but pull all the way back, Niever known a dog like it!
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Ollie rushes to greet me even if I just pop out to move the wheelie bin. He always has. If I am out for more than an hour, it’s as if I have been gone for a week. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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Stan and Ollie! I love it, Pete.
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I actually hadn’t made the Laurel and Hardy connection, Annette. But Stanley is very slim, and Ollie is quite chunky. So that works too. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete. x
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Nice one Pete, and cool that Ollie gets on with him.
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Ollie isn’t bothered by being out with Stanley. Not so sure he would welcome him into the house though, Ollie can be territorial where the house is concerned.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Fair enough. Ollie’s the boss!
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What a lovely and supportive gesture.
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People have helped me in the past, so I like to return the kindness, Peggy.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Good for you! Villages need more BeetleyPetes, I think.
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Thanks, Stevie. The other people in the village are very helpful too. (Most of them, anyway.)
Best wishes, Pete.
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Well done, Pete. Cheers, Jon.
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Thanks, Jon. It is an easy thing to do, and it helps out someone at a bad time in her life.
Best wishes, Pete.
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A good story to hear, what with all the bad news these days
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Thanks, Sarada. We do what we can here, and always try to help people.
Best wishes, Pete.
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