It didn’t do to get to the club until late, so we went to the local pub for drinks before taking the bus into the West End.
You had to be eighteen of course, whether to buy drinks in the pub or be allowed into the club later. We were only fifteen, but wearing smart suits and ties, having well-polished shoes, no doorman ever turned us away.
On a Saturday night, we spent everything we had. That meant walking home later, and spending the week at school with no money. There was a charge at the door of the club, and drinks were twice as expensive in there. So you didn’t offer to buy drinks for any girl, you got your first drink and hung onto if for as long as possible.
The music was good, played by a DJ in a booth at the back. The dance floor was very small, and most of the clubbers were crammed around the sides, or waiting to buy drinks at the bar. Ninety-nine percent of those actually dancing were girls of course. Boys like us waited, biding our time for the slow dances later.
My best mate had already deserted me, but that was okay. He had chatted up an older girl whilst buying our first drink, and for the past hour he had been with her in the corridor that led to the toilets. They were snogging like their lives depended on it. His lips would be bruised on Sunday.
I had spotted her dancing with her mate, and she had turned and smiled at me. On point with the fashions, she looked great in her Mary Quant style mini-dress and white tights. Her short dark hair was the same colour as her huge false eyelashes, and her eyes were the sort that look wide open and smiley. She had left her shoes under the table where they were sitting, and her shoulder bag swung from side to side as she was dancing.
Her mate looked out of place. Tall, frizzy hair, and a flowery-patterned dress that I guessed her mum had made for her. But I wasn’t judging. After all, we were out of place. Two boys from the wrong side of the river, using our smart suits to pretend we were older and more confident than we were.
Less then thirty feet away across the dance floor, I could see the Mary Quant girl looking at me as I leaned against the wall trying desperately to appear cool. She had a drink with a straw, and every time she reached across for it, she looked over at me. The fourth time, she smiled, and I smiled back. Then she said something to her friend, who turned to look at me, then nodded.
This was my chance, the slow dances would start soon, and I would walk over and ask her to dance.
When the lights dimmed and the first record came on, I didn’t rush over. No point appearing to be too eager. Wait for the second one, then stroll across and hold out my right hand. As the second one started, I straightened up, put down my empty glass, and moved one step forward.
Too late.
He swept in from the side, and scooped her up onto the dance floor. At least five years older than me, and as smooth as silk. Her arms went around his neck, and I knew I had missed my moment.
Fifty-Five years later, I still sometimes wonder how her life turned out.
A wonderful story, Pete! Well, I could never impress a woman with dancing. 😉 Be honored for your dancing skills. xx Michael
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I never even got to dance with her. 🙂
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Same lives, different houses. You and me and the millionaires. I went on a quest back in 2015 to find the answers to your last question and that’s what I found, anyway. There’s a short story about that by someone famous. I’ll find it for you.
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Thanks, Phil. I will look forward to reading it.
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This is an entertaining life story, Pete. I had a few boyfriends over the years and there was one I used to wonder about occasionally. He found me on FB and I don’t wonder any more. I know I made the right choice all those years ago.
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That’s why I am not on Facebook, Robbie. I don’t want to be ‘found’. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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We all have those moments and wonder, decades later.
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We do indeed, dear Jennie.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Best to you, Pete.
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it’s so interesting to look back and wonder…
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I don’t know why that girl has always stood out in my memories. There was definitely something about her…
Best wishes, Pete.
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for some unexplained reason, some people hold that special place in our lives forever
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I thoroughly enjoyed this personal narrative, so well-written.
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Thank you, Liz. That’s very kind.
Best wishes, Pete.
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You’re welcome, Pete.
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One does wonder. Warmest regards, Ed
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And it’s good that we can still remember. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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Yes, indeed. warmest regards, Ed
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Oh, my..lost opportunities
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I had quite a few of those, but this one has stuck fast in my memory, Sue.
Best wishes, Pete.
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And I have some too…
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I am sure you do! 🙂
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Ah yes, I remember being the Disco Queen of Sidcup in the late 1970s and all those slow dances. Seems like another life now…
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I’m sure you strutted your stuff very nicely back then, Stevie. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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I remember trying to dance in 6″ platform soles. I fell off them during ‘Rasputin’, crashed into a friend who then crashed into another friend, and we all went down like dominoes.
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Ah, Boney M. I could never stand that group!
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Every time I hear ‘Rasputin’ it still takes me back to The Marlowe Rooms at Sidcup and that fateful night, lol.
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I have been to The Marlowe Rooms a few times when I lived in Bexley. Probably around 1970/1971.
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Ah, I was a bit later… around 1976/77.
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I often had similar experiences Pete and often wonder what might have been.
One amusing experience which often brings a smile back, is when about 15 my friends and I tried to buy a pint (beer) in a local (mistake) after watching the bar maid walk past us many times and totally ignore us, even though I tried every trick my mum had said people do to get served (she had worked as a bar maid) we we were still ignored. Eventually I stopped her said “what does it take to get a pint of beer here” quick as anything she replied “18 years of age son, do you and your friends want a lemonade” the pub cracked up and we tried to slink out the door unnoticed
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That was your baby-faced good looks, Bobby! When I was 15 I could always get served mate.
Cheers, Pete.
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Lee Fowler swept in from the side, and scooped Marian (“Mary”) Quant up onto the dance floor… After fifty-five years of physical abuse, she now sometimes wonders why the young lad wearing the smart suit and tie, and the well-polished shoes, didn’t approach her right away for that slow dance. But at least she is loved by Ros, her wrinkly Shar Pei.
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Nice story combination, David! 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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I’m sure she’s sitting in her parlor wondering much the same about you. Great memory Pete, hugs, C
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Thanks, Cheryl. It would be nice if she was. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete. x
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A bittersweet memory that mirrors one of mine.
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I think everyone has one of these, Don. Maybe more than one.
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We all have those moment that aren’t lost, but remembered as “what if.” I find them comforting sometimes.
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I find it strange that I still remember that girl vividly, at the age of 70. I never even spoke to her, but she remained in my memories for all this time.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Good description. I can picture the scene and almost hear it. I often think of people like that and wonder what became of them,
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Glad to hear you do that too, Carolyn.
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Ah the one that got away!
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Bur was never forgotten. 🙂
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A road I’m sure we’ve all been down. I know I have. And wouldn’t our worlds – and their’s – be so different if we’d made that move!
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Exactly right, popman. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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