R=Regrets.
When you reach the milestone of 70, you must surely have a few regrets? I know I do.
I would have liked to have been better prepared for my first marriage, that’s for sure.
It would have been nice if my second marriage had worked out better too. But it didn’t, so hey-ho.
As much as I enjoyed my long service as an EMT, I wish that I had gone into that job years earlier, when I was 21. I seem to have wasted a lot of time on pointless, unrewarding jobs before deciding to do something useful. But I did earn a great deal of money during that time, so perhaps any regrets are tempered by that fact.
There is no point regretting not visiting America, or many of the other countries I never got to see. I could have gone to those but chose different places instead, when I had the time and money to do that. So, no regrets where that is concerned.
For all of my life, I have tried to be kind, and to do the right thing. But I do regret times when I could have tried harder to do that, in certain situations.
There are many things I do not regret.
Not having any children
Marrying for the third time.
Moving from London to Beetley.
Getting Ollie.
Leaving my EMT job for a role in the police.
Never contacting my dad after he left the family home, and refusing to go to see him when he was dying.
Starting a blog.
On balance, I think the non-regrets outweigh the real regrets. So I am ticking that box as a win!
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I think you have a good balance, and probably more ‘no regrets’ than ‘regrets’.
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It does seem so, and that is a pleasing thought.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Yes, I’m glad it’s pleasing. Best to you, Pete.
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I have to agree to Jennie again, Pete! 🙂 You have all done well and thoughtful. What else? xx Michael
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Life is a lottery and therefore regrets are part of that as are the no regrets all in all I’m happy with my lot and it seems you are too, Pete x
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We both got there in the end, Carol. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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Indeed a winner
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Thanks, Don.
Best wishes, Pete.
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I think FR summed it up well. You won! Warmest regards, Ed
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That does seem to be the case, Ed.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Life is a series of triumphs and regrets. It’s human to have them both. Hopefully, the triumphs outweigh the regrets by far.
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Looking back now, I realise that is true, Pete.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Je ne regrette rien…
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Ah, the little sparrow. She lived La Vie En Rose.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Woulda Couda Shoulda is a potentially dangerous mental game best played tempered with kindness to ourselves. Wish I’d known this or that or seen this or that coming… We are now the product of our experiences. Regardless of pain or outcome, any education is worth whatever we paid for it.
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Very true, Phil.
Best wishes, Pete.
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I probably have a boatload of regrets Pete, but I try not to think too much backwards and strive to push forward. That being said, way, way more non-regrets!
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Non-regrets are a bonus!
Best wishes, Pete.
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It seems to me a life well spent. I believe this is true of most people who dedicate their lives to helping others. Unless you have dedication for service, you cannot survive it. We all have some regrets, but they are a waste of time since what’s done is done.
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Yes, regrets become more pointless as we get older, that’s undeniable.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Yes, we all have regrets I’m sure. I wish I’d studied journalism after leaving school, but Mum said ‘people like me do not go to University’.
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That was a shame. You would have done so well at University, I’m sure.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Sam would have too, but for our working-class generation it was ‘get a job’.
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Thanks for sharing this Pete…we all have regrets of course but with so many decades under our belts it has to be expected!
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I ended up with less regrets than I had anticipated, John. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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I have a few regrets, but they’re balanced by “it all worked out in the end.”
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That’s a good attitude to have, Liz.
Best wishes, Pete.
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More non-regrets than actual regrets so that’s a win.
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Yes, something positive! 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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My only regret is that I did not meet Sue 20 years earlier. chuq
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I can understand that one, chuq. She is a great wife for you.
Best wishes, Pete.
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indeed. chuq
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yes, I’d say the positives way outweigh the regrets. in looking back at my life, (I’ll be 65 tomorrow), I’ve come to believe that the great majority of people do the best the can at any given time and place, with the tools/skills/understandings they have of the world at that time
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I wish you a very Happy Birthday for tomorrow, Beth. Have a great celebration!
Best wishes, Pete. x
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Thank you )
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Like the old song says, Pete: “Accentuate the positive!” 😀 Cheers, Jon.
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That song never gets old, Jon. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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True 😀
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Yup all good Pete
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Thanks for the link, Gavin. I don’t think I will go that far though! 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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