It is not the done thing to congratulate yourself on your own birthday, I know.
But I am going to do it anyway.
As regular readers will recall, the 16th of March is my birthday, and I generally make quite a song-and-dance about it. I start to celebrate a few days before, commencing a ‘birthday week’ of events. These involve shopping for my gifts, a trip to the seaside, and a meal in a restaurant. Nothing fancy, you understand, just keeping up a tradition I started many years ago.
This year is something of a milestone, as I am ‘officially old’. 65 is the age in the UK when you are considered to be a ‘pensioner’. For many, this no longer applies, as recent changes in the law will delay pensions for most people, for up to seven years. But I just crept in under the barrier, so I will be getting my State Pension at the time I was supposed to, starting next week. I will also qualify for things like ‘Pensioner Day Discounts’ at the barber shop. This has its own cruel irony, as I have little hair left to cut. I will get a ‘Winter Fuel Payment’ though, as us oldies need to keep warm.
The downside is that I will also be cast into that great void of the ‘Over 65s’. Look at any survey, most forms, and many special offers, and you will see that the final tick box is usually shown as ’65 Or Over’. Once you hit that magic age, you are destined to be ignored, or at best seen as something of a burden on society. But I am being positive in 2017, so I will not worry about all that stuff.
We will go to the beach with Ollie after I open all my cards and gifts. Then later this evening, we will enjoy a nice meal somewhere, possibly tasty Chinese food. I will drink my red wine, and enjoy the day with Julie and our dog. Then next month, I might just go and get one of those cheap haircuts.
Just because I can.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME!
Staying positive, in 2017.
Sending the dudes to eat these candles and replace them with something like 30 xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx great post
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Get Count Prickula here too, and I will sort him out a nice bowl of blood! 🙂
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Don’t tempt that little fiend…. x
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Heee’s no feeend. He cannot help himself! 🙂
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Yep…
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I very belated happy birthday! I am so behind these days. My dad turns 70 this year and LOVES his pensioners’ discounts. He looks much younger than his age so he can’t wait to ask if there is one and then have to produce his ID to prove that he meets the requirements!
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Thanks, Abbi. Unfortunately, I was able to get a ‘pensioner ticket’ in the cinema two years ago, with no proof of age! My best wishes to your Dad for his 70th. They say it’s the ‘new 50’! Pete.
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Society tells us we are old at a certain age, but age is just a number, and hopefully by the time I feel as old as my actual age I shall have forgotten. hum… something to ponder
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I embraced 65 as best as I could, Laura. It is just the small physical changes that I notice. My brain stays much the same, fortunately! x
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Pete, when I first started going through menopause, early.. my late forties, I called it my tropical heat waves.. Not, Hot flashes.. It helped me to use my own term for what was happening and I retained my smiles through it .. If I said hot flashes I’d probably bit off someones head..
My knees are bad, but I look at it as time to read blogs, or read my beloved books, or write another story in this allotted time my knees need to rest.. It’s not what we’ve lost, but what we still have.. hugs
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Indeed it is. And we both still have a great deal. x
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Belated Birthday wishes to you from Massachusetts!
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Thanks, Lara. Much appreciated!
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Belated happy birthday. 65 is the new 50! 😉 Best wishes, Irene
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Thanks, Irene. I have heard that saying, but I feel a lot older than 50!
Best wishes, Pete.
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I’m sorry, I missed this one, Pete. Once again, Happy Birthday to you❣️ 🌹😊
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Thanks, Dina. Much appreciated.
Love from Beetley, Pete and Ollie. X
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❤ All the best dear Pete! I like your attitude: birthdays are to be celebrated, it's the fact that we came into this world, that we exist and have consciousness, independently of the harshness of this existence at times…Plus, you share a birthday with my beloved mother!
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Thanks, Nandia. I am very happy to share your mother’s birthday!
Best wishes, Pete.
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Happy belated birthday Pete. It’s only fair you get a discount at the barber since it won’t take as long to cut your hair as will an absolute rug mat. 🙂 People should pay more attention to pensioners. They actually pay for things rather than expect to get it in bulk. Ageism is such a pain. You’re the farthest thing from a burden that I can think and after years of service to the community if that time comes you’re owed mate as far as I’m concerned.
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Thanks for your good wishes and kind words, Lloyd. Much appreciated.
Best wishes, Pete.
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What did you have for dinner?
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It was a mixed Chinese buffet, with my personal favourite of fried pork dumplings!
Yum Yum!
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Oh, I love it when you talk dirty Pete. 😉 That sounds delicious and I’m glad you had a good night.
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Happy Birthday for yesterday! Hope you’re enjoying your birthday week 😀
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Thanks, Lauren. It was a happy day, good weather, and the seaside at Southwold. Good week so far!
Best wishes, Pete.
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Sorry, I missed the day itself, Pete, but I hope it was good. And yes, make the best of it! I’m looking forward to petsitting for some friends next week (three dogs), and I hope that should keep me out of trouble.
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Thanks, Olga. It was a good day indeed. Sun and sea, the genteel environs of Southwold, and a tasty Chinese meal in Swaffham later.
Best wishes, and good luck with the dogs!. Pete.
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Happy birthday!!!-This post was especially entertaining!! I hope your new year is beautiful!
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Thanks, RPD. I am very happy that you enjoyed the post. The day went off very well, blue skies and the seaside!
Best wishes, Pete.
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Just a few hours late, but the wishes are still as warm as ever. Happy Birthday! I love to hear of others who extend their celebrations. I did that for years, but now I’m more likely to give myself extra days of computer-free rest – guilt free. lol. 🙂
xx,
mgh
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Thanks, Madelyn.
Nice for me to hear about someone else who ‘extends’ their birthday too!
Best wishes, Pete.
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Blogging connects people all over the globe who have similar thoughts and habits.
Compared to my 4 younger siblings born in the spring and summer, my birthdays got the short shrift in childhood, coming between Thanksgiving, my father’s birthday, Christmas and New Years. So as soon as I got out on my own I began to make it up to myself. 🙂
Party ON Pete!
xx,
mgh
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That’s my intention! Thanks, Madelyn.
Best wishes, Pete.
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A very Happy Birthday to you, Pete! I think 65 is wonderful.
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Thanks, Jennie. Well, 65 has started pretty well, so I am hoping for the best!
Best wishes as always, Pete.
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You, too!
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Happy Birthday you young whipper-snapper! So, you’re officially a senior citizen – you get to blame so much on your age now!! (and no one can ague with you about it!! haha). Enjoy!!
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Thanks, GP. I will be learning how to blame everything on my age. Starting tomorrow!
Best wishes, Pete.
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A happy and blessed birthday to you! Enjoy the Chinese food…always a favourite of my family members for celebrations.
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Thanks, TTT. Much appreciated.
Best wishes, Pete.
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You mean Brits have birthdays too?? Damn! I need to get out more.
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All part of out long historical traditions, Doug. Way back before 1776…
Best wishes, Pete.
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Have a great birthday week Pete, don’t go getting a comb-over now though 🙂
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No chance of that. FR. I am an ‘outer’ of comb-overs and wig-wearers. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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Have a wonderful birthday, Pete. I’m glad you let us know, so we could share a bit of happiness with you. Many happy returns. Have a thriving Thursday. Mega hugs!
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Thanks very much, Teagan. Always good to share happiness!
Best wishes, Pete.
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Happy Birthday Pete! Sounds like a great way to celebrate! Enjoy all of it! 🙂
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It was, Susanne. I will do a post about Southwold, with photos.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Great! Looking forward to it. 🙂
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Adore Southwold. Played the theatre twice!
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So now you’re 65 years old. Congratulations! You’re half way there! If you look over your left shoulder, you’ll see me running behind, trying desperately to catch up…
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Thanks, David. I am staying positive, and we enjoyed a great day at the seaside in an old town called Southwold. (It’s in Suffolk not Norfolk though)
Best wishes, Pete.
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The blokes down at Adnams Brewery asked about you.
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We walked past it, to photograph the church!
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The HAPPIEST Of Birthdays To You Pete! Enjoy yourself!🤗💐🎉🎊🎂🍾
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Thanks, Kim. As always, you are very kind.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Reblogged this on theshammuramat.
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Thanks, Felicity. Much appreciated, as always.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Happy Birthday Pete! I will be 65 in June, and qualify for the discount. I think, since I have no hair, I’ll just get them to rub my head with some of that smelly stuff.
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That takes me back, Ron. So we were born in the same year? A good vintage, obviously!
Best wishes, Pete.
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Happy Birthday! Sounds like a cheerful and jolly time will be had by all. xx
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Thanks, Sarah. A lovely day at Southwold, and soon out for that Chinese meal. So far, so good!
Best wishes, Pete. x
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So envious!
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Hi there, old man! I hope you have a swell time celebrating yourself. What gift will you get yourself? A trip to the sea? Please take pictures. I’m in the high desert. I crave water. You deserve all the recreating you can muster.
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Thanks, Cindy. Just back from Southwold, in Suffolk. (Seaside town) Will put some pictures up another time.
Best wishes, Pete.
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One time back in the 90s, I stayed at a mutual friend’s house for the night. They lived in Lowestoft and we traveled north to Yarmouth for the afternoon. Kinda in your neck of the woods. Hope you had a lovely day.
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It is my neck of the woods, 30 miles away. Though Yarmouth is very commercial, and thought to be a little ‘down market’ these days. I was about 40 miles south-east of that, and had a lovely day. I don’t have any snobbish opinions about Yarmouth myself, but that’s the current mood.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Bravo, Pete! Celebrate the joy of life…remember, you can’t stop the aging process but that doesn’t mean you ever have to “get old!”
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Thanks, John. Staying positive means that I will never get old! (Fingers crossed)
Best wishes, Pete.
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Remember, Doctors have confirmed that two glasses of wine a day are healthier for you than not having any! Cheers!
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Enjoy your day at the beach Pete – bit dull here for beach visits 😦
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Just back from Southwold, Jude. Windy, but blue skies and sea air. Very nice day indeed.
Best wishes, Pete. x
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Happy Birthday! Hope you have a great day! 🙂
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Hi, Eric. Many thanks, and much appreciated.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Just learned about you from Arlene in the Philippines. 🎂🎂🎂 Anyone who writes about their dog is tops in my book. I look forward to following you.(auto correct just tried to make that tomfoolery!)
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Thanks, Elizabeth. Lots on here about my dog. Just type Ollie in the search box.
A much appreciated follow indeed.
Best wishes, Pete.
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I’m ashamed to say that, despite several reminders, I forgot it was your birthday. So Happy Birthday from the Winkos, may there be many, many more to come!
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Not to worry, Eddy. You probably had that humanure to worry about…
Thanks a lot, and best wishes as always.
Pete.
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Happy Birthday and welcome to old age. There are two things one needs to know about getting old. First getting old is easy. Staying old is the trick. And second, getting old is for the brave, OK three things, The older you get the more and more likely people are going to want to help you across the street even if you do not want to cross the damned thing.
Warmest regards, Theo
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Thanks for the tips, Theo.
Best wishes, Pete.
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🎶 Happy Birthday to you!
Happy Birthday to you!
Happy Birthday dear Pete! 🎶
🎶 Happy Birthday to you!
Hip hip hooray!
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I just sang along to that in my head!
Thanks very much, it was appreciated.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Only a pleasure.
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Happy birthday Pete 🙂
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Thanks, Jack. Much appreciated.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Wishing you a very Happy Birthday, 🙂
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Thanks, Khadija, you are very kind.
Best wishes, Pete.
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You’re welcome 🙂
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I’ve sent you an email Pete
Jim Cass’
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Cheers, Jim. I will get to it soon.
All the best mate. Pete.
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Happy birthday again Pete. I linked your blog to my latest post.
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Thanks, Arlene. Much appreciated.
Best wishes, Pete.
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we can wish you a happy birthday though. don’t think 65 is pensionable age anymore!
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It is for me, Simon. I have already been retired for five years! Many thanks.
Best wishes, Pete.
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🙂 don’t think i can ever retire but there you go… 🙂 have a good birthday
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Wishing you a very Happy Birthday from Australia
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Thanks, Peggy. My most distant birthday wish, all the way from the Antipodes!
Best wishes, Pete. x
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Happy Birthday and best wishes Pete.
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Cheers, V. The seaside awaits!
Best wishes, Pete.
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Enjoy it dude.
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Happy birthday, Pete!
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Thanks a lot. Much appreciated!
Best wishes, Pete.
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