Continuing my happy mood with more memories that make me feel good.
Taking my mum to The Ritz Hotel in London for the classic High Tea. A birthday treat for her 80th, and something she had never done. She was thrilled by the opulent surroundings, and the quality of the food served. Then some waiters brought a tiny birthday cake to the table, with one lit candle in it. They sung Happy Birthday to her, and the others in the restaurant gave her a round of applause. The look on her face was priceless. She treasured that cake, and kept it in its little box in her fridge for the next seven years. I found it still there, when I was clearing out her fridge after she had died.
Picking Ollie up from the Animal Hospital in Newmarket. He had just had his final eye operation for Entropion, and had been kept in for three nights after. His sheer delight at seeing us arrive to collect him brought happy tears to my eyes.
Standing on a hotel balcony in Samarkand, Uzbekistan. Just across the street from that hotel was the splendour of the famous Registan temple complex. I had read about Samarkand and the silk route when I was very young. Now here I was, standing opposite that history. I felt every second of that moment, deep inside.
I was part of the ambulance crew that was first on scene at the Ladbroke Grove train crash in 1999, one of the biggest rail disasters in British history. Acting as incident officer, I had to request every available ambulance in London to attend the scene. As they started to arrive, I recognised one crew, a young man and woman from Fulham Ambulance Station. I asked them to help me triage the injured that were being brought to a central point, and for one of them to set up an aid station for walking wounded in a nearby school. At the debrief over six hours later, they approached me and said, “We were so nervous about going to that job, but when we saw you were there sorting things out, we knew we would be okay”. One of the best things anyone ever said to me, in my entire life.
Sitting in a lounge chair outside our cabin at the Kilimanjaro Safari Lodge, in Kenya. I was drinking a gin and tonic before dinner, looking at the distant mountain as thousands of wildebeest crossed the horizon. My wife was inside showering and getting ready, and I sensed a movement next to me. I was amazed to see a huge male Mandrill had come and sat next to my chair. Not much smaller than me, with its distinctive coloured facial markings, and teeth as big as a wolf. I was really scared, yet fascinated. It watched me closely for a few moments before walking away. It was completely non threatening, and I felt the connection with a wild animal that meant me no harm. A simply unforgettable moment.
Wow, a really powerful set of memories this time Pete, I could feel the emotion 🙂
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Cheers mate. Good for me to write these down.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Wonderful memories, Pete. I’m glad they are coming to you, and that you’re sharing them with us.
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Thanks, Jennie. Writing down the details is really theraputic for me.
Best wishes, Pete.
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It’s like reliving the moment. Best to you, Pete.
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I echo Cheryl’s comments. Warmest regards. Theo
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Thanks, Theo. These posts are like therapy for me.
Best wishes, Pete.
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I have missed so much, this is heartwarming Pete, tea with your beloved mum, standing beside history, making people feel safe and secure, sweet Ollie, and sharing a moment with a wild animal. Extraordinary, made me tear up, smile, feel such joy! Hugs, C
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Thanks, Cheryl. This has been a popular short series, and has made me feel happy to write it too.
(Part 5 tomorrow)
Best wishes, Pete.
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Lovely post,Pete!
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Thanks, Marina. Writing these makes me feel happy. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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What an amazing read of beautiful memories. Thank you for sharing them, Mr. Pete. 💛
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My pleasure, Karla. I enhance my mood by writing about these good times.
Best wishes, Pete.
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What vivid experiences, Pete. Well recounted
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Thanks, Sue. Staying positive with these happy memories.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Good!
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Wonderful Memories, Pete something to treasure 🙂 x
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I am opening my treasure box with all these memories of good times, Carol.
Best wishes, Pete. x
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What truly wonderful memories, Pete! Keep them coming! 🙂
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Thanks, Susanne. There will be more to come, I’m sure.
Best wishes, Pete.
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The life always is full of good and bad memories. I think you had a great mix of them, Pete! Now you are in a save area, with a lovely partner and the unique comrade Ollie. Best wishes, Michael
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Thanks, Michael. I am focusing on the good memories to stay happy, and Ollie has certainly given me many good ones to remember.
Best wishes, Pete.
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More lovely memories. The one about your mum keeping the cake had me in tears.
I have some marvellous memories of Samarkand – and also a memory of being as drunk as I’ve ever been in my life from an injudicious mix of Uzbek champagne and several vodkas knocked back
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That went off before I finished writing – just to say the next day I could feel my brain cells exploding!
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Glad to hear you also enjoyed Samarkand. It overwhelmed me.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Wow, such wonderful memories.
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Thanks, Peggy. I am dredging my memory banks for some of the happiest times in my life. It is keeping me in a very good frame of mind.
Best wishes, Pete.
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I love this series, Pete. Your memories of treating your mother to a luxurious tea at the Ritz, no less, brought tears to my eyes. How beautiful, how touching that she keep her birthday cake in the fridge all those years. And the Mandrill…wow! A gorgeous, magnificent creature! It sensed your kindness, Pete. That’s why it came so close.
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Thank you, dear Pam. If my fond memories can touch the hearts of others, then that makes this series doubly valuable to me.
Best wishes, Pete.
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All of these are terrific Pete…thank you for sharing them with us!
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Thanks, John. More to come, as they make me happy.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Your mother must have been so happy with the cake and the love in it. Many years ago we were in Lothal, a site of the Indus valley civilization and I was filled with wonder to be there, imagining life in those long, long ago times. Thank you for sharing your precious memories.
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Thank you very much. I am sure I would feel the same as you, marvelling at the ancient civilisations in the Indus valley. You have a wonderful cultural history in India, with a civilised society existing long before that existed in Europe.
Best wishes, Pete.
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(1) Only the haughty drink the high tea at the Ritz.
(2) I read that the diamond miners on the planet Entropion have gone on strike. They don’t see eye to eye with the company’s hard-nosed safety commissioner.
(3) I once fabricated a tale about a silkworm rebellion at the Registan cocoon complex.
(4) A former prime minister once said: “Sure, you can Fool the people some of the time, but you can’t Fulham all of the time.” He came to this conclusion after years of railroading dubious legislation through Parliament.
(5) Diary entry: “One day here in Kenya, I sat down beside a friendly-looking male human who was drinking a gin and tonic. I fully expected him to offer me a drink. But he didn’t. Bad times…”
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I enjoyed the Mandrill’s recollection of that moment, and also the pun regarding Fulham, a well-known district of London.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fulham
Best wishes, Pete.
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Hi Pete, these really are lovely memories. I think I like the one about the birthday cake your mom received the best. That is lovely.
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Thanks, Robbie. I loved my mum dearly, and my memories of her could fill a dozen posts like this one.
Best wishes, Pete.
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I can see why these memories would make you happy, Pete. Take a bow on the ambulance memory. And what did you do with your mother’s cake.
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Thanks, Don. Sadly, that cake had rotted in its box over seven years, even stored in a fridge. I had to (reluctantly) dump it. But I didn’t need the cake to recall that happy day, so that’s fine.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Your ambulance story…that must be very special. Knowing what to do and how to lead and direct in such a situation, that is a very great credit. I love all your memories but the Mandrill is also very special. I find that large, potentially dangerous animals generally leave you alone if you don’t react with fear or threaten them. Really cheering memories, Pete. Thank you for them.
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They make me happy, Carolyn. I am extra happy if you like them too. I am trying to stay positive and happy, in an old age in a changing world. Memories help me do that.
Best wishes, Pete. x
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oh i’m enjoying this series a lot, Pete. please keep them coming! i love the first one and as a mother, i can totally relate! not sure about the Mandrill though. i probably would have had a heart attack 🙂 🙂
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I stayed motionless in my seat, and became thrilled by the strange experience. Glad you enjoy these, Wilma.
Best wishes, Pete.
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By far, I’ve enjoyed this series the most of all that I have read of your blog. And considering the rest of your works that I have enjoyed? That says a lot.
Hoping this one continues for quite a while.
Cheers Pete!
CT
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Thanks, Chris. I am trying my best to remain happy, using positive memories from my life.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Unforgettable moments and an unforgettable post. As a dislocated Londoner, I have shared experience of a couple of those you mention. Please accept my apologies for my dismal attendance record recently: catching this was a moment of serendipity. I am a failed multi-tasker who never fails to wish the best for you, Julie and Ollie.
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Nothing to forgive, dear Pippa.
Best wishes, Pete. xx
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Great memories Pete, especially of your dear Mum.
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She did love that afternoon at The Ritz. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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You are very fortunate….most of my memories are not as uplifting…..Good reading chuq
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I have just as many awful ones, but I am trying to concentrate on the good ones for now.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Good plan chuq
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Pete, you have certainly experienced some amazing and challenging adventures in your life. It is nice to see how High Tea with your mother on her birthday is among the high points. I would have liked to travel more, but it is so expensive from here so I will live vicariously through your stories.
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Taking my mum out to a special occasion was something I tried to do a lot more as she grew older. We both got happy memories from those occasions. She talked about them until she died.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Memories like you have are such a treasure, Pete. My mother died when I was nineteen so we did not have a chance to have such experiences.
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Some VERY exciting memories, Pete. FYI–I was way behind on my WordPress reading. I’m so glad to be catching up again with fellow bloggers like you. Always makes me smile.
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Thanks for your kind words, dear Angela.
Best wishes, Pete.
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These are not just nice times but amazing times. Things that stay with you forever. How sweet that your mom saved that little cake. I will be forever thankful for the special times I had with my parents, like taking them on an Alaskan cruise, to Hawaii and to the UK. I too recall the look on my mom´s face when she was treated so well on the cruise. Thankfully we have these special memories.
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Thanks, Darlene. being able to repay my mum for her care of me during my life was always such a valuable experience.
Best wishes, Pete.
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