In late Victorian England, the Criminal Law Amendment Act 1885, outlawing sexual relations between men (but not between women) is given Royal Assent by Queen Victoria. Despite the passing of that law, many gay men continued to flout it of course, and some posed for photos with their lovers and friends. Like most societal rules in Victorian times, that law was hypocritical. At a time when child prostitution (female and male) was rife, and cross-dressing was popular in upper-class society, the law was rarely enforced.
Cross-dressing aristocrats posing with their lovers.
A nobleman with his younger lovers.
Oscar Wilde and Lord Alfred Douglas, his young lover. Wilde was famously imprisoned for Sodomy, and that ruined his life.
Mature gay men, happy to record their love on a photo.
Two gay lovers having a photo taken as a memoir.
Two more doing the same.
Lesbians were not considered to actually exist in Victorian society, and the word was never used to describe them at the time. Women were presumed to have ‘companions’, or ‘close friends’. Although they could not be prosecuted, gossip could ruin them socially, and most were under great pressure from their families to marry a man. But that did not stop many of them recording their love by having photographs taken.
Some dressed as men for the photos, and perhaps did the same in private.
It would not be until 1967 when homosexuality was decriminalised in England, when it was legalised between consenting adults in private.
As of July 2020, the following countries still have laws that can prescribe the death penalty for homosexuality:
Afghanistan
Brunei
Iran
Mauritania
Nigeria
Saudi Arabia
Somalia
United Arab Emirates
Wow! I never before had heard or read about Gay love happened during the Victorian era. Now something of the liberty in the UK is much more explainable. Thanks for sharing, Pete! xx Michael
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It has happened throughout history of course, but the Victorians actually outlawed sex between men.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Thankfully things have changed in most places. One can but hope they do everywhere else as well. Of course, that does not mean everybody agrees or is happy about it, but at least the law is on the right side of the equation. In the US, I understand that two lesbians living together used to get called a Boston Marriage. Mamet wrote a period play with that title, although it is not one of the best known. Thanks for sharing those.
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Thanks, Olga. I hadn’t heard of that Mamet play.
Best wishes, Pete.
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An old, good friend of ours published this top seller. Hugh turned us on to Irish Setters 40 years ago. My wife and daughter danced in his ballet company.
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Thanks for the link, Phil. I bet he was a good and loyal friend indeed.
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I’m applaud those who had their photo taken. My brother who has passed was gay, and it wasn’t until he was older that he found true happiness. Once he realized his sisters loved him no matter what, he became a happy man.
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Happy to hear that he found happiness, love, and understanding, Jennie.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Thank you, Pete. Best to you.
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Not my cup of tea.
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Reblogged this on attis.
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Thanks very much for that.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Worked with a guy in the LAS (not Nth Ken) we got on well as a crew. at the end of one shift we went for a pint, as we were talking the usual stuff he said he had something to tell me, he burst into tears and said he was gay, he hoped that would not effect our working together. This admission blew me away, I said most people already had suspicion and knew, also that this would not have any effect and that I’d be happy to work with him. It was after this I realised how much torment this guy must have been in, probably mirrored by many. Soon after he left, I hope he found inner peace.
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Billy O’Neill told me he was gay when I worked with him as a crewmate. I told him I already knew, and it made no difference to me. We remained great friends until the day he died of bone cancer. Julie and I travelled to Oxfordshire to see him in a hospice, a few days before we heard the news of his death. Then we went back there, to attend his funeral. He was a wonderful man.
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Remember Bill from my time in training, as I’ve said before real gentleman.
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These really are interesting pictures. I didn’t know people flouted the law.
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They carried on as normal, Robbie. Prosecutions were rare, mainly because of ‘double-standards’. .
Best wishes, Pete.
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It always amazed me that people passing laws were so insecure that they had to pass that one. Warmest regards, Ed
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It was probably guilt, Ed. I have no doubt that they were doing much the same things themselves.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Never thought of guilt. Fear that they were that way themselves, or, a host of other feelings and nonsense. You may be on to something. Warmest regards, Ed
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There are people here who would like to make life difficult for gay couples. I have never understood the paranoia people have about homosexuality. How two people express their love for each other is between them and them only. I have always enjoyed the company of gay men and like you, I have often found them very entertaining.
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It has certainly become very accepted in England during my lifetime, Carolyn. Even when I was young, it was openly discussed. My mum would describe two men who lived together as ‘confirmed bachelors’, or two women as ‘close companions’. And there was no animosity toward them at all.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Great post and photos of a ‘taboo’ part of life in those days. chuq
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Thanks, chuq. Glad you enjoyed the photos.
Best wishes, Pete.
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This is an area of Victorian portrait photography I wasn’t aware existed.
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Before the camera was invented, many gay couples had their portraits painted together, Liz.
Best wishes, Pete.
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I didn’t know that either, although it does make sense.
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Amazing photo history. I guess some of them a frank and ernest.
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There is a huge photo record available, I just chose a few examples.
Best wishes, Pete.
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If you’re born gay, then no law is going to stop you finding a lover. My cousin is gay and he lives with his boyfriend in the UAE, where they’ve been very happy for years.
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Glad to hear he found happiness, Stevie. Once I joined the Ambulance Service, I met many gay men and women, both in that job, and working in hospitals. Some became lifelong friends.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Yes, when I started off in the NHS as a ward clerk back in 2002 many of the male nurses were gay. One of them I remember had a wicked sense of humour. I laughed non-stop if he was on duty.
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