Happy New Year?
As it is the 30th of December, it’s no surprise that I woke up thinking about New Year’s Eve, and the year to come.
I have a mixed relationship with the 31st. As a child, I usually slept through it. The 1st of January was not traditionally a public holiday in England. It didn’t become one until 1974, by which time I was already 22 years old, and working. So any celebrations of New Year’s Eve were overshadowed by the knowledge of having to get up for work the next morning.
Once we got that day off, going out on the 31st became the norm. Special parties in restaurants or other venues, often going on until the early hours, sometimes travelling home in daylight. The newly-acquired rest day spent recovering from hangovers, and getting used to everything being closed.
Then I got married, and we chose the 31st as our day to wed. Something different, a day that few people ever got married on. It was so unusual, many of our friends and family suspected my first wife might be pregnant. But she wasn’t, and we just wanted to break with the tradition of a summer wedding. Our brief honeymoon in a Sussex town was notable for a party in the hotel that kept us awake most of the night. So New Year’s Eve took on an additional significance, as it became our wedding anniversary. We celebrated that for the next few years, combining the two with renewed vigour. Then I joined the London Ambulance Service.
That night is the busiest of the year for London’s emergency services. Non-stop calls from early evening, right through to the next day. If you are scheduled to work on that shift, getting it off is almost impossible. I had to forego my anniversary celebrations, instead spending my time struggling with aggressive drunks, unconscious party girls, and the outcome of traffic accidents fuelled by alcohol. For the majority of the next twenty-two years, New Year’s Eve became something to dread, rather than celebrate. And after eight of those years, my marriage ended, so anniversary celebrations were no longer on the agenda.
A few notable exceptions can be recalled. Watching the fireworks over London from Primrose Hill, standing in deep mud. An enjoyable and very drunken party, at the nearby flat of a close friend. But generally, I was either working, or doing very little to celebrate the arrival of a new year. That continues now, when we just relax after dinner, and watch the same fireworks on TV, from the comfort of our sofa 120 miles away from where they are exploding.
And as you get older, celebrating another year is not what it used to be. Anticipating being one year closer to the age of 65, 70, or 75 does not have the same allure, I assure you.
For all you younger people who are anticipating a wonderful celebration tomorrow, I wish you well, and hope that you have a great time. And for those older people who still enjoy such things, you too, of course. I will be lucky if I am still awake at midnight. 🙂
A HAPPY NEW YEAR TO EVERYONE!
Thanks for the post Pete and for all those NYEs you kept a few souls safe.
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Cheers, Lloyd. I didn’t enjoy working NYE that much, but the double pay after midnight was an incentive. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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I have never been a fan of New Year’s Eve. I think any night where you are told HAVE THE BEST TIME EVER is guaranteed to be a let down and most of the years where I have bothered to go out have been just that. I think the one exception was a house party hosted at my own house.
Coincidentally the last time I went out on New Year’s Eve was my friend’s wedding three years ago. It was a beautiful wedding but I was pregnant and exhausted and so ready to go to bed long before midnight. Ha ha!
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At least I am not the only one crazy enough to have got married on a New Year’s Eve, Abbi. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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A wedding ceremony oh the 31th o December. Very special, but easy to remember. Wow! 😉 Michael
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It was ‘unconventional’, Michael. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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:-))
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For me, New Year’s Eve is birthday eve so I tend to find myself doubly reflective as a new year starts and I advance another year.
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A birthday on the 1st, TC? My best wishes in advance. I hope you have a marvellous celebration!
Best wishes, Pete.
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A wonderful read, Pete!
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Thanks so much, Jennie. I am very happy that you enjoyed it.
Best wishes, Pete.
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You’re welcome, Pete.
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Happy New Year from New England! We have a special meal with friends tomorrow. I’m already tired!
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Thanks, Lara. I hope that you and your husband enjoy that special meal. Please give my best wishes to everyone, from a tired old Communist in England! 🙂
Pete. x
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It is New Year’s Eve morning. I think my foot is broken. so I am off to the hospital. I did pick the right day to do it, didn’t I?
Warmest regards, Theo
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I do hope it isn’t broken, Theo. Seeing in the new year with a plaster cast won’t be much fun.
Fingers crossed!
Best wishes, Pete.
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I’m glad to have followed you through throughout 2018. I look forward to interacting virtually in 2019. Happy New Year, Pete. I hope the weather obliges you!
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Thanks, Cindy. No rain at least!
Happy New Year to you and yours in Arizona. 🙂
Best wishes as always, Pete. x
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Happy New Year, Pete! I usually don’t do much to mark the date, either, but the local radio station I’m volunteering at help organise a bit of an event for the neighbourhood, so I might go to help, handing out cava and coca… ♥
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That sounds like a very good way to celebrate, Olga.
I hope that you have a wonderful 2019.
Best wishes as always, Pete. x
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Wishing you all the best for New Year.
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You too mate. Happy New Year to you and your family.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Thanks for the well wishes. Hope you, Julie and Ollie have a good one.
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I had the wild ears of celebration and for the life of me I cannot say why…..now it is a personal thing with Sue and myself…..hope everyone here has a safe and happy celebration….chuq
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I have come to enjoy that quiet and thoughtful ‘celebration’ too, chuq.
Best wishes, Pete.
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We’re going to our first New Year’s Eve festivities in years Pete. Fingers crossed the rain holds off. Happy New Year to you, Julie and Ollie.🤗
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Thanks, Kim. The same to you and Tom.
Have a great time! 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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So many personal things in life really change your perspective, don’t they?
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I have a friend who was born on Christmas Day. He never enjoyed Christmas much, because his birthday got overlooked. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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Understood – I am New Years Eve baby, and sometimes the “celebration” jokes gets tiring!
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Understood too! 🙂
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Of course, Las Vegas celebrates New Year’s with a fireworks and entertainment extravaganza, but I tend to avoid large crowds. So I’ll probably just play on my computer at home, and keep an eye on the task bar countdown. As for 2018, it wasn’t very productive for me. So I’m hoping I can kick myself into action in 2019.
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I hope that you can find that renewed enthusiasm in 2019, David.
My best wishes to you and Michelle for a happy and healthy new year.
Pete.
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Best wishes to you, Julie, and Ollie!
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Not something I celebrate either Pete. Like you I worked on NYD and then I had children so partying was out of the question. Now I might watch the fireworks over the Thames if Jools can keep me awake. But another year is just another year older and more creaky joints. I had hoped to be doing more travelling now, but even that seems to have fizzled out. I really need to get my energy back and start dancing in the rain before it is too late!!
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Jools will have to do it for me too, Jude. As for that energy, mine seems to have almost vanished. I have just got back from over two hours trudging around with Ollie, and I could happily just go to bed with no dinner. 😦
Best wishes, Pete.
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We are lacking sunlight Pete, that’s the problem.
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We’ll we’ll be standing at the bedroom window at midnight as we can see all the fireworks going off along the River Tyne a few miles away, always a good spectacle. Have a good sleep on New Yr’s Eve Pete 🙂
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They must look good around the Tyne Bridges. I might manage to stay awake until 12, if Jools Holland has any good singers on his show. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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Michael Bublé, Jess Glynne, George Ezra.
Nile Rodgers & Chic,Marc Almond, Rudimental, Yola, The Record Company, Junior Giscombe, Hot 8 Brass Band, Ruby Turner and The Pipes and Drums of the 1st Battalion Scots Guards.
Must be someone there!
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I like most of those, except Ezra. So it could be good. And Julie is getting a Tandoori dinner from a nice place locally, so no cooking for me. Yay!
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Haha we’re doing the tandoori dinner on New Years Day as I’ve had enough of cooking too!
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Happy new Year, Pete! Try to stay positive. As they say, another year older and deeper in debt🤣🍾🍾🎉🎉
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Thanks, Marina. I had a ‘Stay Positive’ year in 2017, if you remember. That worked very well indeed, but events in 2018 caused that to crumble. I will see how I do next year. Fingers crossed.
Ευτυχισμένο το νέο έτος to you, and your family.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Thanks, Pete, and hope 2019 is good for you!
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It has to be better than 2018, Sue. Please! 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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Well, I hope less hot!
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Ah, I wasn’t thinking of the weather. 🙂
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No, but heat ruins my life…..ergo, I am practically immobile and most unhappy…. And for you ŵhat’s the number one baddie?
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My issues with 2018 were some domestic problems that I can’t really talk about, Sue. I was just answering your weather question with something related to that. Sorry if that’s confusing. 🙂
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Probably that relentless, heavy rain, Sue. Miserable dog-walking in the mud, and no desire to go anywhere else. 😦
Best wishes, Pete.
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Yep…but that’s also weather, Pete! 😉😉😟
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We have a few invites from younger friends, well younger to me, the same age for Gosia. I’m am busy thinking of excuses and I’m sure the children will rescue me from yet another hangover 🙂
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NOSTROVIA! Stay off the home-made vodka mate. 🙂
Best wishes to the four of you.
Pete.
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BUT – we made it through another one, my friend!!
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Yes indeed. It’s an achievement to collect another year’s worth of pensions! 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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hahhaha!!
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Will surely wait for 12 am when 2019 ushers in. Happy New Year Pete.
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I will try, Arlene. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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