I lose track of the days at this time of year. By the time January 2nd is upon us, I will finally be able to stop having to look at my desk calendar to know what day it is. Things break my routine during the Chriistmas season. Dustbin days are changed, shops have different opening hours, many not opening at all. The kids are not at school, and new faces appear in the group of dog-walkers.
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If you saw my post ‘The Bird Has Flown’, you will know the pigeon has finally left the garden, its wing healed.
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We have our first seasonal visitors today. One of my stepsons and his girlfriend, travelling from Bedfordshire to deliver and collect presents. There will probably be no other visitors until the 27th, so we anticipate a very quiet Christmas.
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The TV shows are appearing. Those usually dull ‘Specials’, reviews of the past year, the same old familiar films. As a rule, the TV season at this time of year provides little worth watching after the autumn drama series have all concluded until 2022.
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Blogging is different at this time of year too. People are busy, some travelling on visits, many not blogging at all. On that subject, I need to mention Mary Smith. She is facing her last days in a hospice, dying of terminal cancer. She is unlikely to see Christmas 2021. So just for her, I am determined to make the best of it, as a tribute to one of the best bloggers, authors, and genuinely nicest people I ever met online. Please read her incredibly moving post. It will make you grateful for whatever you are doing this Christmas.
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I don’t follow Mary’s blog, but I have often read her posts, mostly on Sally’s blog. Yes, losing a blogging friend is a heartache. I still think of Sue Vincent and her courageous battle with cancer.
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Sue and Mary in the same year is hard indeed.
Thanks, Jennie.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Yes, it is. Best to you, Pete.
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I was incredibly moved by Mary’s post. I’m going to miss her. She is a remarkable human being and a very gifted writer.
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I completely agree, Liz. Losing genuine blogging friends is one of the downsides of our blogging community.
Best wishes, Pete.
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It’s a downside I’ve come to learn. I wasn’t expecting it.
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Best for the holidays and a Happy New Year Pete.
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The same to you and your family, dear Felicity. Thanks again for all the retweets. I am sorry I don’t get on Twitter very often, but I hope all is well on the island.
Best wishes, Pete.x
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(1) Shops have changed days of operation, and dustbins have different opening hours, many not opening at all. (Those waste collectors are lazy this time of year.)
(2) The Trashmen were overheard singing:
♬ A-well-a everybody’s heard about the bird!
♬ Bird bird bird, b-bird’s the word
♬ A-well-a bird bird bird, bird is the word
♬ A-well-a bird bird bird, well-a bird is the word
♬ A-well-a bird bird bird, b-bird’s the word
♬ A-well-a bird bird bird, well-a bird is the word
(3) “So we anticipate a very quiet Christmas.” With no chimney for Santa, what did you expect? The prancing and pawing of reindeer hoofs on the roof?
(4) I like the autumn drama series that feature colorful leaves plummeting to the ground. But I prefer the dancing snowflakes of winter.
(5) Very sad to hear about Mary Smith.
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Thanks, David. I am still upset about dear Mary.
Best wishes, Pete.
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A sad and truthful post Pete. I’m sadly lumped in with the traumatic loss of my own husband this year. No Christmas here :(. It’s been a ginormous year of losses for so many. Mary is a warrior and will forever be remembered as that for me. Wishing you happy holidays. 🙂
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Thanks, Debby. I completely understand that you will be grieving at Christmas, and I send you hugs from across an ocean.
Best wishes, Pete. x
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Thank you Pete. A difficult year for many. Let’s hope for a better 2022! ❤
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That was such a difficult post to read Pete, my heart is aching for Mary, tears slipping down my cheeks. It makes me appreciate all the people I love, all the goodness in life. Thanks for your musings I can’t keep track of the days either. Blessings on the wonder of the season, xx, C
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Thanks, Cheryl. I am still upset about Mary as I type this.
As the old saying goes, “Why is it always the good ones?”
Best wishes, Pete.
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Thanks for the information, Pete! Life is really that unfair. Only a few hours ago I thought again of Sue (Vincent), who also had to go through this difficult time. xx Michael
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Yes, Sue and Mary, in such a short time. Tragic.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Oh yes! Thinking on this, i am very down. A very unfair situation, as especially Mary has done so much for the people in Afghanistan too. Best wishes, Michael
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Thank you Pete for directing me to Mary’s post. I read her post for the first time and am so moved that I can’t find words to express my feelings. Am praying for her.
Chaya
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Thanks very much, dear Chaya.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Like others, I cried upon reading Mary’s post earlier. She is so giving and loving to all. Her bravery at this time is another example of how wonderful she is. It is certainly a wake up call to appreciate the here and now.
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Thanks, Lauren. Mary did indeed set an example to all of us.
Best wishes, Pete.
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So very sad….good news for the pigeon……have a sane and quiet Christmas…..chuq
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Thanks, chuq. It got off to a difficult start, and I will be posting about that later.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Hi Pete, I have just read Mary’s post and I feel very tearful. I can’t believe I’ve lost two of my dearest blogging friends within the same year. I had the good fortune to meet Mary when I visited Scotland in 2019 and it is a memory I treasure. I am going off-line for a few weeks and will see you in 2022. Merry Christmas, Pete, and look after Ollie.
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An early Happy New Year to you and your family, Robbie.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Thank you for honoring Mary…she was one of the great, interactive bloggers that I have gotten to know and its a time to remember that and reflect on this “circle of life” we are part of…
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Thanks John. It shows how closely we connect to people we may never meet.
Best wishes, Pete.
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So very sad to hear the news about Mary, her cancer diary is a tribute to her writing skills, her positive attitude and her humour.
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Yes, she wrote her own perfect tribute, and is leaving a wonderful legacy, Jude.
Best wishes, Pete. x
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Our community is filled with sadness after reading Mary’s post, Pete. She is remarkable and welcoming and a lesson in grace and humility. 💔 No words seem adequate.
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Yes, it was as if I needed to say something, even if there was nothing more to say.
Thanks, Maggie.
Best wishes, Pete.
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I like your blog very much. But I absolutely love the way you care about and honor others. It gives me hope in humanity.
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Thanks for those kind words, Stacey. They are very much appreciated.
Best wishes, Pete. x
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After reading Mary’s post the word Grace comers to mind. Warmest regards, Theo
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A perfect word for a very gracious lady, Theo.
Best wishes, Pete.
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The news from Mary had me in tears. I was fortunate to have met her in person last summer. A memory I will always cherish. It will also be my first Christmas without my mom, doubly tough as it was also her birthday on December 25th. Neither of them would want us to be sad over Christmas so I will drink a toast to both of them.
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So will I, Darlene. Both will be terribly missed.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Dear Pete,
after two weeks, which I spent more or less on the sofa with a cold, I was able to read your blog again today.
I also read Mary’s post and I have to say that made me very sad and thoughtful.
We should all really be grateful at Christmas that we can experience that.
I wish you and your family a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year.
Kind regards from Irene
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Thank you very much, dear Irene.
I send seasonal greetings to you and your family from England.
Pete.
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So sad..Mary has been with me on my girls journey and supported us although she herself was also going through this dastardly deadly disease…She is truly an amazing lady x
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She’s a diamond, Carol.
Best wishes, Pete. x
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Thanks very much, GP.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Very, very sad….
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Even though I expected it, my heart still broke, Sue.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Yes
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I read Mary’s post earlier this morning, had a few tears I don’t mind admitting. What an amazing lady she is.
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I got really upset reading that, FR. Julie had to ask what was wrong with me.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Me too, Pete, I couldn’t find words to say much after all had been said. I love her Afghan posts and the books I got, and all her writings showed what a wonderful person she is, it’s too sad.
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