Yesterday afternoon, we had been asked to go to a family gathering. Julie has two sons, and identical twin daughters. One of her daughters wanted to celebrate being with her boyfriend for ten years, and had organised a meal in a restaurant in Thetford, 30 miles south of Beetley.
The couple had recently returned from a short holiday in Cyprus, having arranged the family meal before they left. So we set off to see everyone, and joined the large group seated around two extended tables in one section of the restaurant. We took some flowers and a card, as well as Easter gifts for Julie’s chidren and grandchildren. After everyone had ordered food, the couple stood up, and said they had something to tell us. Unveiling a large framed wedding photograph, they announced that they had got married in Cyprus on the 7th of April.
It was a surprise to everyone there, save for the twin sister and best friend who had flown out to Cyprus for two days to attend the wedding. They had also managed to keep everything secret for the five weeks of the planning before, and the period since the wedding too.
Naturally, we were delighted, and it also explained why we had all been asked to celebrate something as relatively ‘minor’ as them being together for ten years.
Later in the year, they are planning to have a more formal wedding reception, somewhere in Norfolk. But they had wanted to save everyone trying to arrange to take time off, and having to deal with the expense of a trip to Cyprus to attend.
Then a large cake was produced, and we all enjoyed a slice.
The biggest surprise for me was that all those involved managed to keep that secret!
That’s so lovely! Best wishes to them ❤
When my boyfriend EVENTUALLY proposes (😂) I would like to do something similar. I hate being centre of attention and don't have a close family to invite anyway. Just elope………..and then celebrate with your nearest and dearest the best way how – FOOD AND CAKE!
Hope you're well Pete, and Julie and Ollie too! xxx
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Thanks, Em. I think it was a good way for them to avoid stress and save a lot of money. They are eventually going to have a big party to celebrate, but probably not until next year. Tell your man that he needs to pop the question soon. He wouldn’t want to lose you! 🙂
(Thanks for boosting my views today too honey.)
As ever, Pete. XXX
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I love that even though you thought it odd to celebrate ten years together you went to the party anyway. What a great surprise.
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I went there so I could drive my wife and she could have a couple of celebratory drinks. It turned out to be so much better than any of us anticipated. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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I even got to attend!
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Congratulations to you and Julie, Pete! Another son in the family. The pic is beautiful!
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Thanks very much, dear Shaily.
Best wishes, Pete.
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That is wonderful, Pete! How thoughtful of the bride and groom to plan a reception instead of expecting people to travel far away to a wedding.
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It was, though we have a more formal reception for lots more people, later this summer.
Best wishes, Pete.
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I meant thoughtful about the more formal reception this summer. Lots of people, and no long distance travel. Your family dinner was really wonderful. Best to you, Pete.
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Great! I hope they will choose a time when the god of rain will be far aways from the UK. 😉 xx Michael
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They have suggested August, but British weather can never be relied upon, Michael, even in the high summer.
Best wishes, Pete.
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I think August will be a good time, Pete! Finger crossed! Best wishes, Michael
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A nice surprise indeed!
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It was good to have a really happy family occasion, Stevie.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Hi Pete, that is a lovely surprise and you all took the news well. My mother would have a fit if one of us got married and she wasn’t involved from the beginning to the end.
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My wife was happy for them. She realised that they had avoided all the stress of family ‘interference’, and it would have been difficult for everyone to travel to Cyprus. Only the groom’s father appeared to be very disappointed. I don’t understand why parents feel that they have to be involved, my mum was like that. Perhaps it comes from the time when the father of the bride paid for everything? That doesn’t happen so much now.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Agreed, Terence and I paid for our own wedding. I didn’t mind my mom and my mother-in-law being involved, but our wedding was local.
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this is absolutely wonderful and very well done! congrats to the happy couple!
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Thanks, Beth. One of life’s ‘better’ surprises. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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A very nice surprise indeed. And bravo to everyone for managing to keep secret for so long.
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That was an even bigger surprise than the wedding, Jeanne. Those girls are not known for keeping anything secret. They even tell us what they have bought us for birthdays and Christmas long before the event. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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I’m not a fan of big expensive weddings and getting married in Cyprus is very romantic, but I can’t help wondering whether Julie feels a bit disappointed not to have shared the happy day.
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She didn’t mind at all, Jude. The groom’s father was the only one who seemed a little put out. He didn’t really speak to anyone after the announcement. Julie is mainly emotional about one of her four children actually being married! 🙂
Best wishes, Pete. x
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What a great surprise, and good on them for sharing the news in such a memorable way.
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It wasa ‘first’ in our family, Peggy.
Best wishes, Pete.
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What a terrific surprise!
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We were so happy for them, John. They are a lovely couple.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Awww congratulations to the happy couple!!
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Thanks, Christina. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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Cheers and the very best wishes from the States!!
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Thanks as always, GP.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Congrats to them….and well done with the secret thing…..chuq
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Thanks very much, chuq.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Nice surprise indeed! Congratulations! 🎉🎊🎵🎶🍾🥂
Cheers,
CT
P.S. hope this shows up. I’m afraid if I don’t post at least 500 characters, Word Press is suspicious and won’t post my comment. 🤔
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Thanks, Chris. You made it through WordPress!
Best wishes, Pete.
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Lovely surprise 🙂
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It was indeed. Thank you, June.
Best wishes, Pete.
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I thought about getting married in a cypress swamp, but instead tied the knot in an 1880’s western town replica that has since been razed (Bonnie Springs, Nevada). The little wooden chapel, however, was salvaged and moved to a location in North Las Vegas.
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That sounds like an interesting and unusual place to get married, David. Glad to hear they saved the chapel.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Awww…..Awesomeness!!🥰🥰
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Thanks very much, that’s appreciated.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Happy day! Congratulations to the newlyweds!
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Thanks very much, Susanne.
Best wishes, Pete.
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What a lovely surprise. Well done, them. I wish them all the best.
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Thanks, Darlene. It was a great start to Easter.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Their secret marriage in order to save their family and friends time and money shows how much they care for others.
Congratulations to the newly weds.
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Thank you, Don. It gave them a fuss-free wedding, and the rest of us saved money and stress. Everyone wins! 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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That IS a lovely surprise!
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They certainly caught us all out, FR.
Best wishes, Pete.
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I always liked “nice” secrets, surprising people with something meaningful. They must have enjoyed it. Best wishes to them!
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They were worried that we would be angry, but of course we were just happy for them.
Best wishes, Pete.
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I always think that big weddings are a waste of money and put far too much stress on everyone. The way your step-daughter did it makes way more sense!
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I’m sure her twin sister will do exactly the same thing soon, Carolyn.
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Many years of love are ahead for the newlyweds! What a terrific reason to host a family dinner. ❤
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Yes indeed. Thank you, Annette.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Stumbled upon your blog today. I love your writing style. I have been learning a lot from you.
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Thanks very much for your kind words, Megha. If I can ever be of any help to you, feel free to email me. petejohnson50@yahoo.com
Best wishes, Pete.
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Thanks for offering help Pete! I just sent you an email. 🙂
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I have replied, and read your post too. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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Congratulations to the lucky couple!
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*I meant happy!
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Thanks, Liz. I think they are both happy and lucky. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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Maybe even happy-go-lucky?
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Fingers crossed for that, David. 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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You’re welcome, Pete.
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❤ is beautiful! XOX
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Thanks, Lara.
Best wishes, Pete. x
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Congratulations!
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Thanks very much, Margie.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Congratulations to them, what a great surprise 🙂
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Thanks, Eddie. It was carried off well by all involved.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Thanks for sharing !
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Thanks, Arbind.
Best wishes, Pete.
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